Comment on Anon struggles with a one day chip

CancerMancer@sh.itjust.works ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

• cRazi_man@lemm.ee ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  My family culture as a child was that sleep is sacred. If there were plans and places to go, but someone was tired and fell asleep on the sofa, then the light would be switched off, a blanket fetched, no one else goes in the lounge and the plans got delayed or cancelled.

  Now I’ve married a woman who wakes me up to ask me if I’m sleeping.

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  • sirico@feddit.uk ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Are you sleeping? I hope the notification didn’t wake you.

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• ettyblatant@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Definitely not gender-restricted. I think every guy I’ve ever dated has poked/shaken/bothered me awake just to ask in a loud whisper “pssst hey are you sleeping??” and when I’d say yes, I was sleeping, they’d be like “okay you should probably keep sleeping” or something like that.

  One guy would find that I wasn’t in bed anymore (he snored) and then come to the couch, poke me to ask if I was sleeping on the couch, and then ultimately climb into the couch with me to then snore some more!

  Looking back it is very endearing, but I’ve never considered hurting someone I love as much as I did in those instances.

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  • the_crotch@sh.itjust.works ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    I think every guy I’ve ever dated has poked/shaken/bothered me awake just to ask in a loud whisper “pssst hey are you sleeping??” and when I’d say yes, I was sleeping, they’d be like “okay you should probably keep sleeping” or something like that.

    They wanted to screw

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• steeznson@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  This is incredibly specific and I’ve never encountered the women-hating-men-sleeping phenomenon before.

  Do you sleep walk or something? How did you manage to upset them so much while nominally being unconscious? Your post has puzzled me.

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  • PhoreTwunny@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    If I tried to sleep longer than my ex-wife, she would “clean” very loudly in the bedroom until I got up. Conversely if I didn’t want to go to bed the same time she did, she got super butthurt.

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    • steeznson@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Yeah ok that is mental. I can see why she is an ex.

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      • Comment105@lemm.ee ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        Some people are insane and unfortunately it’s a little too common to allow them to stay in your life.

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  • Hupf@feddit.org ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    youtu.be/vMMYh8uIsNs

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    • steeznson@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Holy shit, people are nuts. I didn’t realise it was tied into toxic gender roles like that when I saw OP’s comment at first. It seems like these people are stuck in unhappy marriages/long term relationships and their partners want to hurt them in a societally acceptable way.

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      • CancerMancer@sh.itjust.works ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        “pick-me” is just the way shitty women describe women who don’t hate men

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    • lessthanluigi@lemmy.sdf.org ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      The War On Napping

      lol

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• morrowind@lemmy.ml ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Two main reasons I know:

  1. The “not masculine enough” category of icks
  2. Associated with laziness

  Your experiences seem to be related to #2

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