I am extremely weird, man, I’m not trying to judge someone in any sense for being weird or asocial or whatever. But what sort of porn logic is this where someone’s opposite-sex friend is lightly flirting with him and the widely upvoted reactions range from “SHE’S AN EMOTIONAL TRAINWRECK RUN AWAY SHE DESERVES TO SUFFER” all the way to “FUCK HER, FUCK HER BRAINS OUT, SHE WANTS IT!”
It’s not even clear that she likes him for real. Sometimes friends interact with each other. Jesus Christ man. This is a fairly normal type of human interaction, not anything advanced or sophisticated, and the majority Lemmy opinion is apparently just a big sperglord house of horrors.
This is not a normal kind of human interaction, on the girl’s part.
It very strongly indicates she is a spoiled brat, a narcissist.
If you think this kind of interaction is normal… well I see two possible explanations:
You are also a narcissist and that’s why you think this is normal.
OR
You are surrounded by narcissists who have gaslit you into thinking this is normal, and you haven’t had too many interactions with non narcissists.
Also, I don’t see anywhere near as many total upvotes for ‘she’s into you dude, frost that cupcake!’ as I do for ‘this is the biggest red flag imaginable, let me write a short essay explaining why’
In fact, yeah, I don’t see a single comment advocating the anon dive into her… affairs, over this.
there’s no context, that’s the problem. Depending on their friendship this could be very normal, or it could be very weird, without any context this is batshit insane.
This story is fictional, but it seems as though anon was disinterested in the easy lay, which we as the audience are meant to derive satisfaction from.
KingJalopy@lemm.ee 1 year ago
Anon is very smart and too good for this person
PhilipTheBucket@ponder.cat 1 year ago
Have you guys ever spent time with a real person in real life interactions lmao
KingJalopy@lemm.ee 1 year ago
I’ve been married for 13 years and have a daughter…
So no.
KillingTimeItself@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 year ago
yeah, if anybody is stating that they could (presumably) get sex from anybody, that’s borderline rape at some point.
DontMakeMoreBabies@lemm.ee 1 year ago
ಠ_ಠ
Borderline rape? Really?
People say shit like this and I wonder how much meat space experience they have with… really, anything.
Anyone else read “The Anxious Generation” yet?
Wildfire0Straggler3@lemm.ee 1 year ago
That would have been an easy lay for anon.
PhilipTheBucket@ponder.cat 1 year ago
You guys are SO FRICKIN’ WEIRD.
I am extremely weird, man, I’m not trying to judge someone in any sense for being weird or asocial or whatever. But what sort of porn logic is this where someone’s opposite-sex friend is lightly flirting with him and the widely upvoted reactions range from “SHE’S AN EMOTIONAL TRAINWRECK RUN AWAY SHE DESERVES TO SUFFER” all the way to “FUCK HER, FUCK HER BRAINS OUT, SHE WANTS IT!”
It’s not even clear that she likes him for real. Sometimes friends interact with each other. Jesus Christ man. This is a fairly normal type of human interaction, not anything advanced or sophisticated, and the majority Lemmy opinion is apparently just a big sperglord house of horrors.
x00z@lemmy.world 1 year ago
Back in the good ol’ days we understood that the internet is all lies and only exists for porn.
Wildfire0Straggler3@lemm.ee 1 year ago
It’s not that serious brother.
sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 year ago
This is not a normal kind of human interaction, on the girl’s part.
It very strongly indicates she is a spoiled brat, a narcissist.
If you think this kind of interaction is normal… well I see two possible explanations:
You are also a narcissist and that’s why you think this is normal.
OR
You are surrounded by narcissists who have gaslit you into thinking this is normal, and you haven’t had too many interactions with non narcissists.
Also, I don’t see anywhere near as many total upvotes for ‘she’s into you dude, frost that cupcake!’ as I do for ‘this is the biggest red flag imaginable, let me write a short essay explaining why’
In fact, yeah, I don’t see a single comment advocating the anon dive into her… affairs, over this.
KillingTimeItself@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 year ago
there’s no context, that’s the problem. Depending on their friendship this could be very normal, or it could be very weird, without any context this is batshit insane.
fibojoly@sh.itjust.works 1 year ago
You forget the ancient wisdom though : do NOT stick your dick in crazy.
Malfeasant@lemm.ee 1 year ago
Solid advice, but the problem is, crazy will rock your world…
Wildfire0Straggler3@lemm.ee 1 year ago
Wear a raincoat
Gullible@sh.itjust.works 1 year ago
This story is fictional, but it seems as though anon was disinterested in the easy lay, which we as the audience are meant to derive satisfaction from.
KingJalopy@lemm.ee 1 year ago
Which is why he is smart.