This is fundamentally no different than making fun of someone for obvious plastic surgery. Choices were made.
This guy is clearly choosing to look like this.
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UrPartnerInCrime@sh.itjust.works 4 days ago
The internet: Body shaming isn’t right
This thread: Yeah this guy’s a freak and I would never want to look like that.
Good job guys
Clent@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 days ago
tswiftchair@lemm.ee 3 days ago
You shouldn’t make fun of those people either…
Stamets@lemmy.world 4 days ago
So… if someone can’t help how they look then you shouldn’t shame or mock them but if you choose to look a particular way then get fucked? That is a truly fucked up moral to try and proclaim. That it is totally acceptable to mock someone for their looks as long as they’ve chosen to look that way.
What a shitty, fucked up and miserable little world you must live in. Why don’t you show us what you look like? I’m curious what decisions you’ve made. I mean… fair is fair. Right?
Clent@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 days ago
Yep.
It’s funny how you’re acting superior but have no problem judging the world I must live in as being shitty.
The difference between you and I is that I don’t lie to myself. It’s a subtle difference but actually leads to living in a world that is less shitty.
Maybe one day you can join me but you’ll need to let go of that gate your keeping yourself behind.
Stamets@lemmy.world 3 days ago
It’s funny how you’re acting superior but have no problem judging the world I must live in as being shitty.
Well yes. Because Im judging the world you live in, not you. I’m saying that if you go around doing this, you’re going to see nothing but misery and contempt everywhere you go.
The difference between you and I is that I don’t lie to myself.
It’s a subtle difference but actually leads to living in a world that is less shitty.
Ahhhh, my mistake. Sorry. I didn’t realize that attacking people for how they look actually makes the world less shitty. Makes total sense.
Maybe one day you can join me but you’ll need to let go of that gate your keeping yourself behind.
Brother, you are openly judging someones appearance and saying you’re allowed to mock them but saying I’m the gatekeeper?
Good luck with that.
UrPartnerInCrime@sh.itjust.works 4 days ago
You’re really going ofter him for being intolerant of your intolerance? Grow up child
NikkiDimes@lemmy.world 3 days ago
Judging peoples choices regarding their own body that has nothing to do with anyone else makes the world less shitty.
Got it. Thank you.
UrPartnerInCrime@sh.itjust.works 3 days ago
Also, by this logic trans people should get mocked because they made those choices to their bodies and it’s outside those norms, but i thought we were trying to be more accepting
feedum_sneedson@lemmy.world 4 days ago
too many steroids
Melvin_Ferd@lemmy.world 3 days ago
Never enough
But_my_mom_says_im_cool@lemmy.world 4 days ago
Right but this is like the Miukbang people and nickado avocado or whatever. It’s the equivalent of gorging yourself into being morbidly obese whole going “don’t shame me!”
ThatGuy46475@lemmy.world 3 days ago
Even fitness models only look like that on the day of the photo shoot, it isn’t healthy
UrPartnerInCrime@sh.itjust.works 3 days ago
That I know. One of my best friends in high school used to be a body builder. Got absolutely swole and would dehydrate before his competitions. And while I would never do that to myself, I supported him fully as that’s what made him happy.
Empricorn@feddit.nl 3 days ago
It’s… “bodybuilding”. If I see someone with awful face tattoos I’m allowed to think that I would never want to look like that. In both cases they specifically made the choice and spent the time/money to achieve exactly that specific, very noticable look.
UrPartnerInCrime@sh.itjust.works 3 days ago
Fantastic. You realize they specifically made the choice. And you can think however you want to about it. Don’t then go online and talk about how it’s terrible and/or make fun of the person.
That’s called body shaming.
Stamets@lemmy.world 4 days ago
Yep. I’ve been utterly disgusted by so many people in this thread and kinda regret ever posting this. At least I found a whole lot of people I can tag as being problematic as shit to keep an eye on. I don’t know how anyone in their right mind believes that it is okay to mock someone based off of the way they look. I kinda do it off of actions. Doing it off of looks is just childish horseshit and I expected better of people here. They should feel incredibly fucking ashamed of themselves.
All these pathetic redditors who left the site but not the mentality.