Doesn’t even need to be a trap, accidents happen (i.e. missing a dose of birth control).
Comment on HELP! How do I help educate my son about his body when I know nothing about boys??
Krudler@lemmy.world 1 week ago
At some point. For the love of all that is holy you MUST tell you son the following: Never come in a woman unless you want a baby. Even if she tells you to. Even if she claims she is protected.
NEVER COME IN A WOMAN WITH WHOM YOU DO NOT WISH TO HAVE A BABY
Women will baby-trap the living fuck out of young men. He NEEDS to know this.
DerArzt@lemmy.world 1 week ago
nutsack@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 week ago
yeah honestly this is the only thing
hungryphrog@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 week ago
This is utter nonsense. Condoms work 99% of the time, and most women aren’t horrible people. Go back to reddit.
SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 1 week ago
Was with you until this line. C’mon now.
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LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.world 1 week ago
It does happen. Had a woman poke holes in all of the condoms in my nightstand when I was 18. She later admitted she thought I was going to leave her because I was going to a University and she was going to the state college. I’m sure it is rare that such happens, but I wouldn’t fully dismiss it. I was paranoid after that and always went to the bathroom after and filled the condom with water to make sure they hadn’t broke or had a hole in them after sex. It wouldn’t do anything to prevent it at that point, but at least I had the peace of mind I guess that I knew it wasn’t leaking and could get a 9 month head start on planning.
SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 1 week ago
It absolutely happens, no doubt! Never disagreed with that!
But putting out such a general statement like “women will baby-trap you!” is such a broad statement. Statements like that are often used to stir up hostility and is a common tactic used in spaces that are anti-women.
Me saying “men will assault you!” would not be acceptable and would get me attacked and downvoted to hell. It’s astounding to me that statements like this about women are supported.
Allero@lemmy.today 1 week ago
Yeah, a better way to put it would be “There are women that may attempt baby-trap you, and you should always be mindful of that”
LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.world 1 week ago
Yeah it really wasn’t the response I expected to a teaching your child about their body. Not sure what that person has been through, but it did seem random. I expected responses like how to properly clean oneself.
pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 week ago
Lemmy.world is worse than fucking reddit was with gender relations lmfao
vonbaronhans@midwest.social 1 week ago
Weirdos end up on Lemmy. Many of us are a splendidly wonderful, if pedantic, sort.
And then there’s the weirdos that… aren’t that. The ones who never built social skills or the ability to look at the world from beyond their own limited experiences. The ones who extrapolate with reckless abandon, usually in the traditional directions of punching down.
I’m sorry if they or someone they know got baby-trapped, but that is DEFINITELY not the usual nor should it be phrased like it is.
SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 1 week ago
I’m more shocked at the amount of upvotes the comment has.
Krudler@lemmy.world 1 week ago
You need to understand that is one of a host of reasons and things that can be said. I’m not going to write a 40-page essay. Frank talk is necessary, too bad you can’t see that and choose to focus on the gender thing. That’s really about you and not me. Frank talk about all aspects of sex is vital. Get a grip.
SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 1 week ago
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vonbaronhans@midwest.social 1 week ago
Do you think “frank” means “without nuance or care for how what I’m saying could be misconstrued as bigotry”?
Like, literally the only change I know I’d like to see is “there are some women who” and like… that’s hardly an imposition, y’know? Definitely not a “40 page essay” either.