whoisearth
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- Comment on Teserract may be opensource, but adding myself would feel disingenuous 13 hours ago:
On the list too that’s hilarious. Jesus Christ why is everyone a fucking snowflake now?
- Comment on Me this morning 6 days ago:
Gotta power through the anxiety lol. I did it so much I became functional even when on it the problem was it sucked away my drive to do anything that amounted to anything I just wanted to smoke more weed and mountain bike with a shitty do nothing job.
I now have 3 kids I adore immensely and a job that I love that pays insanely well. I still keep weed around but I can never bring myself to do it because there’s too much to enjoy in life why dull my senses?
To your experiencing fascism real time. I hear you. For me it’s putting things into perspective. When you look at the world objectively it’s a shit show regardless. Make sure you and those around you are safe and you are capable to survive the coming storm and you’re good. If you find yourself or someone you love on one of their hit lists you take as many of those degenerate fuckers as you can by any means possible.
- Comment on At this rate, it will never end 6 days ago:
Just like a pool it’s better to have a friend with a boat then own one.
Also there’s a joke here in a Ontario you can tell someone is wealthy if they have boat money because Jesus Christ they burn through gas.
- Comment on Me this morning 1 week ago:
Exactly. The danger is using it to escape your life. Life shouldn’t need an escape. If you feel it does you have a larger more difficult conversation you need to have with yourself.
- Comment on Me this morning 1 week ago:
And?
- Comment on Me this morning 1 week ago:
So glad I grew out of this. I still drink copious amounts of tea but any amount of weed is destructive.
I’ll share something I posted a good decade ago on Reddit.
I used to smoke at least a joint a day sometimes multiple. I was consistently wake and bake outside of work. You know what weed does that no one wants to discuss? It makes you complacent. It sucks your drive to do anything. As a young person that’s a horrible place to be. You are young, you should be taking risks and you should be striving for better.
- Comment on that’s why it’s just a summer fling 1 week ago:
Make that a Kenyan girl and you have my ex.
Miss me with that bullshit. Christ that relationship damaged me.
- Comment on Anon likes a woman 2 weeks ago:
Welcome to my ex-gf. Also some people know how to say what you want to hear while avoiding the actions to make it real. This can be very destructive to someone’s peace.
- Comment on PlayStation’s Physical Media-Free Future Isn’t Just Concerning, It’s Offensive 2 weeks ago:
Yeah and this is where the rub is I guess. On a PC you can pirate. On a PC you can easily mod. There’s a level of freedom that is not gated like on a console.
Historically, consoles have not been cost prohibitive so they’re more attractive.
“Wait, I can play God of War and I don’t have to pay $1500 for a PC?” (Let’s ignore the truth you can build a computer for much cheaper to play games many people don’t go that far)
So I’m with you, this is console gamers. Which goes back to my point this is PS (and will be MS and Nintendo soon enough) and industry is going to the death of physical media this is the sad reality. If they want to do that to save costs and have the added benefit to further control their gated ecosystem good on them. You always can go to PC.
I’ve been a console gamer almost exclusively for 15+ years now (aside from a handful of steam games I can run on a low spec old laptop). Are console gamers really this lazy + entitled?
- Comment on PlayStation’s Physical Media-Free Future Isn’t Just Concerning, It’s Offensive 3 weeks ago:
I’m one of the indifferent ones and I would actually echo the companies in “no one buys physical media anymore and the stats prove it”.
Now that doesn’t mean it’s right. I’m also there I love used game shops and I still will once in a while buy a game for my Xbox series x.
That said, for decades now PC games have been dl through steam. People very much do not buy physical games. The only difference is this is a walled ecosystem in PS (or MS as I’m sure they will follow suite if they survive the console wars). Nintendo?
So I guess what I’m saying is although I get the hatred, where have all you fuckers been while physical media has pretty much disappeared everywhere? Or is the truth that you are all a vocal minority screaming into a hurricane?
I’m not looking to stir up shit. I honestly want to know. I would probably still buy an Xbox if it’s cheap and game pass is around and no physical media. I can always go back to PC gaming if I want. I still have the choice. To complain about a company business decision though if they really believe it’s where the market is going (and I think I agree) then good on them. Just don’t buy a PS6?
- Comment on We found their kryptonite! 3 weeks ago:
Two wrongs do not make a right.
Also let’s be honest memes like these are simply Internet Warriors pretending to do shit but we all know they are doing nothing outside of online activity of posting memes and bitching on social media.
- Comment on Femality is stored in the nipples 4 weeks ago:
Just my last nitpick because I don’t want an infinite back and forth they mentioned attractiveness in women but did specify what I would assume is traditional images of women hence my point you can have full on men as beautiful as women except they’re hiding a dick. By their logic they are not attracted to those people because they somehow know they are not women? That is what I found weird.
- Comment on What is your favourite gaming console you have played? 4 weeks ago:
I was going to go Dreamcast or Xbox 360 but I think you’re bang on in your assessment.
- Comment on Femality is stored in the nipples 4 weeks ago:
Read the original post we are both replying to. Person was saying they’re only attracted to women. I think we are both arguing the same thing it’s fucking weird. Many “women” are actually men. The point is the person isnt going to know. They’re saying it doesn’t matter and yet the mythical idea of a vagina is what they look for. What if they look like John Cena but they have a vagina? Would they be attracted to them because they have the lady parts? It’s weird they are forcing an absolutism on that.
- Comment on Femality is stored in the nipples 4 weeks ago:
To get to the bedroom means sexual attraction though? Does anyone get to the bedroom without the intention to fuck?
- Comment on Femality is stored in the nipples 4 weeks ago:
But if they have a hidden dick they somehow know? I stand by it’s weird.
I could show them many girls that are gorgeous but they’re ladyboys. Based on their logic they would be attracted and the penis shouldn’t matter but then they say sex matters so how do they know that person has a hidden dick?
- Comment on Femality is stored in the nipples 4 weeks ago:
As an unabashed straight dude this is weird.
- Comment on British Charlie Kirk wannabe beaten up debating people in Manchester 4 weeks ago:
One small correction in that they don’t stop being losers
- Comment on Why? 4 weeks ago:
securely
- Comment on Thar she blows 5 weeks ago:
- Comment on brand new sentence 5 weeks ago:
It really is. Dysmorphia must be getting so bad in boys now. We didn’t care when it was women but not that it’s making news cycles more means boys are being impacted.
- Comment on Anon's dad tries to bond 5 weeks ago:
I know it’s a tangent but one gripe I had this morning was due to society changing it is not more acceptable for me, a dude, to wear a dress to work than it is shorts on a hot day.
If I wear a dress everyone will ignore and at most talk under their breath because of a fear of not being inclusive or whatnot but if you wear shorts “oh that’s not corporate policy you can’t do that.”. It’s utter bullshit.
Regardless I bet we would agree on far more than we would disagree on and I do strongly agree a lot of the problems today are due to people not being beat up when they say racist/homophobic/hate speech.
- Comment on Anon's dad tries to bond 5 weeks ago:
He’s actually stated he’s more asexual than anything but no, your point doesn’t stand if anything you’re highlighting ignorance from the other side.
That said you’re not looking to discuss you’re looking to scream from your soapbox and that I have neither the time nor the give a shit to hear it.
- Comment on Anon's dad tries to bond 5 weeks ago:
The only thing I’m going to pick at here more as food for thought. Talking with my psychologist this morning. I feel there is benefit to the fact that as example for me having ADHD as a kid life was tough and we had to learn how to manage because the world doesn’t give a shit. I firmly believe we lost that along the way.
Do not mistake my being tough with a lack of caring.
The question I would ask you. Were you trans would you rather learn to deal with ignorance and advocate for yourself with someone you know or trust or from the world which will fucking bury you if given the opportunity? Personally I’d choose the former.
Now all that said this is online conversation and in no way expresses the complexity of reality so please take that for what it’s worth. You may be assuming something that in no way matches reality.
- Comment on Anon's dad tries to bond 5 weeks ago:
The most grounded response and thank you. I commented elsewhere but ultimately I’m big on providing the space to do what you feel is comfortable so in that I’m more of a watch and wait.
- Comment on Anon's dad tries to bond 5 weeks ago:
Points taken what I will say is pronouns aren’t top of mind with any of us. If anything I’m pretty big on using “buddy” which in this day and age is pretty gender neutral. Beyond that think of it as, he’s a kid, I’m providing the safe space for him to be able to advocate for himself. If he wants me to use pronouns I will, but he needs to raise it. Not because I don’t want to, but because he knows I love him unconditionally so he has an opportunity to show growth in himself and advocate that.
In all honesty he’s shown far more growth than I did at his age all things considered.
- Comment on Anon's dad tries to bond 5 weeks ago:
How can anyone be sure of anything outside of what their actions tell us?
You’re bang on my kid sounds more mature than I am but in fairness to me it’s a low fucking bar.
What I will impart is that when they told me about being trans it was a good month before they told their mom not because he knew I would be more accepting but because I genuinely do not give a shit. We joke in my house that unless you’re a furry I don’t care what you are (and then yes, I make it very clear even if you were a furry I would still love you but will judge you harshly).
I think the big problem here which came up elsewhere is twofold.
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This conversation exists outside of all additional context of my life and my kids life. People are pontificating on something in isolation.
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Online is not offline. People are assuming that what we are typing here is the reality when it isn’t.
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- Comment on Anon's dad tries to bond 5 weeks ago:
I’m laughing that you’re making the decision that they want to be identified as a girl. The point you’re making is moot at this point but how you’re attempting to make it is ignorant AF.
You’re the one assuming shit here far more than I am and in fairness it’s because you know jack shit about me and my kid.
Anyways, I find that funny.
- Comment on Anon's dad tries to bond 5 weeks ago:
Also worth noting especially with younger people they can’t disassociate online with offline.
- Comment on My Arrakis 5 weeks ago:
Keeping with the story, of only Iran had a white savior to come and free them! /s
