iltoroargento
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- Comment on Average GPA of a billionaire as per the research by University of Boston is 2.9 Why Valedictorians rarely reach this stage? 1 day ago:
Of course LinkedIn slop misinterprets the data to basically say, “You, too, can become a billionaire even if you have mediocre grades!”
That hellscape of a platform is so full of self aggrandizement and accountability dodging.
- Comment on Why do I look like shit some days? 5 days ago:
I often felt this way in school, through grad school, as well. For me, it would be a bad hair day or just waking up not feeling great about myself and I’d basically just color the whole day in the shitty mood I woke up in and I basically gave up on the day
Definitely a your mileage may vary kind of thing, but for me it was pretty much impossible to reframe my day when I got into that mindset.
I also think being in an environment where I, consciously or unconsciously, felt a need/want to look good to other people (highschool and law school were very like this for me) would put me in that mindset.
I eventually addressed these feelings through a lot of self work and help from a good therapist, but I think age and confidence also played a role/were intertwined in this for me.
Eventually, I didn’t care so much about how I appeared to most others, told my pretentious law job to kick rocks, and became a teacher. I’ve developed even tougher skin through that profession because kids are both freaking hilarious and remarkably brutal. Any form of pretense or GAF kind of energy will be detrimental to honest interactions and teaching in general, so when the kids learn that I’m just here to help them learn and don’t care about clout/drama, it really helps tear down some walls.
Idk, kinda went on a bit there, but basically a lot of what I experienced was due to me caring about how I was perceived and if it wasn’t perfect in my eyes, I gave up. Once I started focusing on honest interactions with others, and moved into a career/life trajectory that supported that focus, I kind of moved away from being so hard on myself.
Some or none of this may apply to you, but I hope this helps a bit and if you’re asking these kinds of “why” questions, you’re already on a good track.
- Comment on Little Surprise 🎥 1 week ago:
Nah, there’s one on there already. Thanks, though!
- Comment on Young gamers in Japan may not be forming the same attachment to Final Fantasy or Dragon Quest because modern dev cycles are as long as their childhood, users theorize - AUTOMATON WEST 1 week ago:
Nice. I liked it before the dlc came out so I’m definitely down to see how it changes things. I appreciate when studios support their writers to deliver a satisfying/impactful product. It makes all the difference.
- Comment on Young gamers in Japan may not be forming the same attachment to Final Fantasy or Dragon Quest because modern dev cycles are as long as their childhood, users theorize - AUTOMATON WEST 1 week ago:
For a long while, DLC has been just an excuse to foist unnecessary content on the consumer for sales. There are a few notable exceptions in this like Fallout 3 and New Vegas, earlier Borderlands, and, surprisingly, the recent Tainted Grail: Fall of Avalon.
For the most part, though, I have not bought DLC without thoroughly vetting it. I’m not talking about cosmetics. I’m talking about actual story/content additions being overpriced fetch quests which are, more often than not, just vehicles for more useless cosmetics.
As an example, Fallout 4 DLC (much like the basegame itself) was a mistake seated in brand loyalty/a hope of redeeming the title. The DLC featured cosmetic additions for their Sims style settlement minigame, a couple cutesy fetch quests for armor, and two unfinished story DLCs that played like the elevator pitch of what would have eventually been fleshed out of this we’re an earlier entry in the series.
With most story DLC, at best, you get a lackluster and entirely forgettable addition to the basegame. At worst, you get horse armor disguised as a new campaign or an unforgivably half assed hodge podge of storylines that cheapen the rest of your experience with the game.
- Comment on ENSIGN JAMIE FOXX 2 weeks ago:
Alright. I chuckled. Tell my family I’m going to Hell.
- Comment on My feelings on the Super Bowl 2 weeks ago:
I just wish they would get to the series finale sometime soon.
- Comment on Is this Boss Baby's troubled cousin? 3 weeks ago:
Joking aside, fetal alcohol syndrome is terrible and entirely preventable.
- Comment on I'm not gonna be part of your system 4 weeks ago:
WHATCHU THINK, I’M STUPID?!?!
- Comment on Heroic former PC Gamer writer creates a script to banish all the AI features from Google Chrome 4 weeks ago:
This is lovely.
- Comment on X-Files '90s promo shoot 3 months ago:
Thank you! Lol I am now both vindicated and informed!
- Comment on X-Files '90s promo shoot 3 months ago:
I loved the monster of the week early seasons but never made it past the later seasons where Anderson and Duchovny were replaced. Is there anything worth watching past that?
- Comment on Remember using this little gadget as a kid to blow bubbles 4 months ago:
“Everybody clapped.”
- Comment on Just in time 4 months ago:
Also, add in the drastically higher incidence of parasites and plague!
“Baby, you’ve got a stew goin’!”
- Comment on Americans Are Using PTO to Sleep, Not for Vacation—Report 4 months ago:
“Welcome back, Kotter…”
- Comment on ISO 26300 5 months ago:
Libreoffice is so nice. I also use onlyoffice on my phone, and have liked it so far.
- Comment on What games have mastered "Both emotional extremes"? 5 months ago:
It’s bonkers lol yeah. I love the Gestrals.
- Comment on What games have mastered "Both emotional extremes"? 5 months ago:
I recently finished Clair Obscur: Expedition 33 and I think it fits the bill perfectly. I laughed, I cried, I raged, I celebrated, I was in awe. Really a beautiful story and deep take on life and existence. I went into it blind and highly recommend that kind of experience as well.
- Comment on I have tomorrow off :) 6 months ago:
Red 4 Dead 2
- Comment on If you were born after 1990, you've never had this experience 6 months ago:
I love the kind of woman that will actually just kill me. You know, when I left the house today I was thinking “Damn, I really hope some hot chick paints my brains all over some fucking hallway.” And here we are.
I mean, really, just absolutely destroy me. I’m talkin’ full on, watermelon in the thighs level carnage.
And I want it to scare the shit outta me. I mean I hope I piss myself. I hope I piss myself and you call me your little “peepee pisspiss boy.” I want you to fuck me up. I mean I want you to make me your bitch. Your little peepee piss myself bitch.
I want it to get embarressing. I mean like… weirdly embarrassing. Unsanitary, too. We should be entirely different people, by the end of the first eight hours.
Do you understand what I’m trying to say here? I mean, l’m a real freak. I’m not normal. Ma’am… Please… You have to crush me.
- Comment on Planet of the apes: Beginning 6 months ago:
I wonder if a squirt bottle would be cheaper? Airsoft is pretty expensive from what I remember as a kid lol
- Comment on Just trying to scan my TPS reports 7 months ago:
“Well, that dog won’t hunt!”
- Comment on Made Ya Look... 7 months ago:
I agree with your support of a free Palestine, but being willfully dense and single issue is reductionist and doesn’t help your argument. Compassion for all oppressed people is key. We are all a part of this. We all deserve to see these wrongs righted.
- Comment on Hmmm who could it possibly be? 7 months ago:
I was gonna say Slugworth haha getting that corporate espionage goin’
- Comment on It will 8 months ago:
“I want to believe… [in dat ass]…”
- Comment on Creative ideas are hard to execute 8 months ago:
Often expensive too, but, more often than not, worth it. At least in my experience.
- Comment on Worst spy ever 8 months ago:
Agreed lol
- Comment on Worst spy ever 8 months ago:
Honestly, a lot of things are improved by H. John Benjamin’s voice lol
- Comment on Official Season 3 Trailer | Star Trek: Strange New Worlds 8 months ago:
Omg Patton Oswalt as a Vulcan is killing me. Cannot wait.
- Comment on TIL my decision to drive a 22' full cab pickup truck and vehemently oppose urban zoning reform makes me a defender of social justice, a warrior for the downtrodden, and more progressive than 99% [cont 8 months ago:
Executive processing challenged homies love the easy fix of delivery;)