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- Comment on Anon plays spin the bottle 1 week ago:
Yeah, it’s less like football bro-y and more like send each other memes and play video games and make music together:)
- Comment on ROFL 2 weeks ago:
i use it and wonder what people think when i do. they never seem to react negatively. maybe they’re silently judging me
- Comment on Anon plays spin the bottle 2 weeks ago:
No, I definitely get it. Maybe exactly the same, but I have been traumatised enough to learn to present myself like an amicable, calm guy. I definitely need to get close to someone to allow that side of myself to get out, but sometimes it just comes out without my control if I really feel comfortable. But yeah, the comfort only comes out when I really trust someone.
One of my exes definitely cemented it in too. Shaming me for some behaviors 💀 Then, another ex praised my silliness, so it helped me come out of my shell a bit more. Nowadays I feel like I let out just enough to be a “fun, chill guy”.
Sorry to hear about that cutesy shit comment. That really sucks. If it wasn’t his thing, that’s fine, but to bring you down for it is just a fuckin asshole move. (I’m a proud user of the :3 face lol, it just represents that cheeky cute emotion perfectly)
Glad to hear you have good connections. That’s really what life is about I think. Building connections with others and building yourself up (knowledge, hobbies, wisdom, etc)
I do have my few IRL friends too. 2 really long term ones that have never failed me, another couple stray friends from jobs I’ve had, and most recently a group of musician friends I met last year. It’s the kind of “guy friendgroup” connection I’d been lacking for many years, and they’re all just as weird and hyper-knowledgable in their respective special interests lol. I just love people like that!
- Comment on Anon plays spin the bottle 2 weeks ago:
Thank you lol
- Comment on Anon plays spin the bottle 2 weeks ago:
I hear you, man. I’ve found that you just gotta find the right people. After meeting some people where I truly feel like I can be myself, I am now healing. I still struggle to like myself at times, but having people that love me helps.
It’s not exactly what I enjoy that I can’t do, it’s just a general energy/enthusiasm switch. If I’m having a really good time, I usually make lots of comments, can be annoying to other people. I can also get very energetic or silly at times, or heated/invested in a discussion (basically an intensity problem). Unless they see through this and understand my core, they will always be annoyed and put off by that aspect of myself. It’s hard to explain and is something I need to talk to my therapist a lot more about, lol.
Have you made many friends without face-to-face? Like, online friends, phone talking friends, etc? I imagine that’s a good way to find real ones.
- Comment on Anon plays spin the bottle 2 weeks ago:
As a kid I was the weird one. It wasn’t my physical attraction, it was just my personality. I’m adhd as fuck and maybe also autistic, so I was hyper around others and couldn’t really read situations/know when to stop talking. I got excluded more times than I can count because of that stuff. These days it feels like my social “success” comes from me muting myself and not having a good time.
- Comment on Anon plays spin the bottle 2 weeks ago:
I’d just like to say that I didn’t find it read like AI personally
- Comment on Is it possible to install my own OS on a "smart" TV? Is that a thing? 4 weeks ago:
As soon as you see those sections with bullet points you know.
- Comment on Is it possible to install my own OS on a "smart" TV? Is that a thing? 4 weeks ago:
You should’ve quoted the gpt part or mentioned it. That’s why people are upset, it seems misleading. I get why you did it though.
- Comment on Anon questions our energy sector 4 weeks ago:
Also see: asbestos.
We never tried to figure out a way to safely regulate & use it. It’s a magic workable material that can’t burn and is durable af. That’s amazing!?
- Comment on The g spot is in the ear canal 1 month ago:
Yeah I think I have 1A hair. Even when I brush it, the hairtie doesn’t have enough grip to hold it tight. It loosens up overtime.
- Comment on 'I love the scent of rain' 1 month ago:
born to piss, forced to drink water
- Comment on The g spot is in the ear canal 1 month ago:
Ohh yeah. I’m currently washing my hair once a week on average, cause it gets greasy, but I forgot about conditioner helping that. I hate the few days after shampooing- my hair is so dry and smooth that it won’t stay in a ponytail for very long. Very frustrating.
- Comment on You have 8 seconds. 1 month ago:
It’s possible to talk to random women without seeming intimidating. Always leave an easy out. Don’t be pushy. Be casual. The thing people don’t get is they try to just fish for numbers. Sometimes, just a compliment and never talking to her again is what you need.
The real way to meet new people for relationships is to meet new friends. Every person you meet opens a ton of opportunities for experiences and connections.
- Comment on You have 8 seconds. 1 month ago:
That’s just wrong and putting a blanket statement for no reason.
- Comment on Stop whining. Do it yourself. 1 month ago:
We’re complaining because we don’t want to be the ones to post, lol.
- Comment on Trump cosplaying 1 month ago:
Oh I see. Like fear mongering propaganda psyop type stuff lol. Yeah I see what you mean. Thanks!
- Comment on Trump cosplaying 1 month ago:
What is FUD?
- Comment on Brand recognition 2 months ago:
Yep:)
- Comment on Hungry Lions 2 months ago:
This guy feels emasculated by a meme about lions
- Comment on Thank you Skövde 2 months ago:
It’s a silly asset dump that has incredible depth!
- Comment on Artifical Intelligence 2 months ago:
Basically yes, lack of detail, especially small things like hair or fingers. The texture/definition in AI images is usually less. Though, once again, depends on the technique being used.
- Comment on It's important 2 months ago:
Yeah, this
- Comment on Anon goes to dinner with coworkers 2 months ago:
What have we taken from you?
- Comment on Burning Up 3 months ago:
Ah true.
- Comment on Burning Up 3 months ago:
No… I get it… 41 < 105… I totally agree haha funny joke. I’m just over this debate. Who gives a fuck what temperature scale you use? Just use the one you know. We have conversions for that reason.
- Comment on Burning Up 3 months ago:
Once again… the classic argument of: “Well, I grew up using this system, and I’m used to the system. I have built an internal intuition for how hot and cold the temperature is. I am used to >100 being hot! 40 is not hot!”
Well then. I grew up using celcius and… “IT’S FOURTY FUCKING ONE DEGREES OUTSIDE?” sounds just as hot.
- Comment on Posting the shopping cart theory because people had questions in a separate thread 3 months ago:
I like how it’s just women who are worried about their kids being kidnapped.
- Comment on Anon isn't a fan of Judas 3 months ago:
Yeah but in the lore he chose to let himself get killed so he could flex his resurrection spell.
- Comment on Moss 3 months ago:
Nope, but I was in Australia. Not quite as swampy.