LesserAbe
@LesserAbe@lemmy.world
- Comment on [deleted] 2 weeks ago:
How long have they been messaging you? Are there other cases where they’ve indicated knowledge of “real life” events?
To me it seems more likely they’ve compromised your email or texts than that they got lucky and observed you going to the police station. If you mentioned in a digital communication to anyone that you were going to file a report, and the stalker compromised something digitally, then they would know.
For the stalker to actually observe you going to the police they would have to be pretty dedicated to watching your home, which is both risky (that they could be seen) and labor intensive.
If you drove there, it’s conceivable that they put a tracker on your vehicle.
Probably doesn’t need saying but I think it’s extremely unlikely they have sway over the police or made a report disappear. It’s easy enough for nothing to happen in the normal course of business.
Lastly, do you live with someone or have a close relationship with someone that you don’t get along with? If you’re experiencing “real life” interactions with this stalker seems more likely it’s someone you know rather than a complete stranger.
- Comment on I never realized this 2 weeks ago:
Hyphenated names are too long. One of my good friends has one and people just refer to him and his siblings by the initials of their last name, like “Tim MP”
- Comment on I never realized this 2 weeks ago:
That’s great we’re in agreement. Your comment said “… a lot of people who published research before their marriage continue to publish under the same name even if they changed their name.”
So I didn’t read your comment as saying woman shouldn’t change their name, because you’re describing women changing their name, and then not using the new name in a specific context.
- Comment on I never realized this 2 weeks ago:
Sure it’s a headache. So why does the woman have to do it? I think either keep your names as is or both people change.
- Comment on I never realized this 2 weeks ago:
Are you saying that the people who came up with the original surnames are more qualified than people today? At least with my idea when people come up with a new name they have to use it themselves, rather than their defenseless children.
- Comment on I never realized this 2 weeks ago:
When people get married they should come up with a completely new last name for them both.
- Comment on What they are referring to is in the lower left corner. Bet you intially missed it and had evil thoughts 4 weeks ago:
I just saw this the other day and the poor word choice was enough without cropping out a bunch of the original ad.
- Comment on Cowboy 1 month ago:
- Comment on Swords suck, spears are a way more effective weapon 2 months ago:
I could beat them both with my invention, the megaspear
- Comment on USA President term limits 2 months ago:
Right, there’s also a constitutional amendment saying insurrectionists can’t stand for office
- Comment on Anon gives up dating apps 2 months ago:
Yeah, I wouldn’t recommend a bar either. Try taking a class, joining some sort of athletic thing (jogging, cycling, yoga) volunteering somewhere. Go to a place where you’re doing an activity with a group, and the focus isn’t dating. Takes the pressure off and allows for getting to know people naturally.
- Comment on Big Ol' Beavers 2 months ago:
Tired metric joke
- Comment on A decline in arable land 2 months ago:
Go Netherlands
- Comment on This one goes out to the GLAMourous 3 months ago:
My friend working at a major museum in the U.S. brought me up to the roof once, and as we were walking down dusty dimly lit halls he pointed out some pole weapons which were determined to be fake but the conditions of the donation were that they had to keep everything, so they were just leaning in a corner.
- Comment on GRIZZLODILE 3 months ago:
Yeah, who are they calling apex predator, take a look around.
- Comment on How do I... Do court? I didn't realize my license was expired and got pulled over. Now I have court tomorrow. 3 months ago:
I wouldn’t listen to this advice, personally. Driving with an expired license is more black and white than speeding. With speeding could have been other cars around that the radar was picking up, the radar might not have been calibrated recently, the cop might decide it’s not worth showing up.
I’ve pleaded not guilty to several speeding tickets and got some dismissed and some reduced (I lived in a rural area as a college student and they made a lot of money that way)
One time my sister got a ticket and asked me the process to expect when you plead not guilty so I told her - but I didn’t know she got the ticket in a school zone. When she got there the cop got up on the stand and ran through his certification to operate the radar and when it was last inspected and they asked her how she could explain that she could possibly be not guilty and she got whatever the big fee was. (Which I assume she would have had to pay anyways but without the embarrassment)
It’s not in dispute that your license is expired, and I would think hard to dispute that you got pulled over while driving. Given those two facts I don’t see an advantage to pleading not guilty, you might just annoy the judge, which decreases likelihood of lenience.
- Comment on How do I... Do court? I didn't realize my license was expired and got pulled over. Now I have court tomorrow. 3 months ago:
Like others said. you’re not going to jail. You’ll be ok. You’ll get a fine and maybe points on your license.
- Comment on If I was a secret immortal how long could I keep the same US ID for before I get taken away for study. I'm thinking 150 years. 3 months ago:
When your id says you’re 100 and you look 21 it’s going to cause issues.
You want to get away from ever needing an ID. The wealth you gain from compounding interest should allow you to hire accounting experts who will handle your transactions and hide your wealth among shell companies. I think once or twice you could go with the “this is my child, me Jr” routine, but eventually you need to have some kind of emissary who conducts business on your behalf while you cycle through fraudulent ids and move around every 20-30 years.
- Comment on Primitive Technology: A-frame Roof Tile Factory 3 months ago:
I love primitive technology and watched this before I saw it posted here. That said, seems like he’s revisiting projects he’s already done. He already made clay roof tiles and an a frame hut. He’s made multiple videos about bellows, and about gathering/refining ore pellets. He can do whatever he wants and I’m happy to watch, just wondering if there’s a greater plan or he’s just messing around.
- Comment on I'm as white as snow but I'm still not white enough to eat this. 3 months ago:
No worries, just making a joke and not saying it’s a reflection on your character.
When I see “I’m white but not white enough to eat this” I interpret that to be saying some people are unreasonable in their aversion to spice. What did you mean?
- Comment on I'm as white as snow but I'm still not white enough to eat this. 3 months ago:
Yeah, people should only eat the things I like to eat
- Comment on [deleted] 3 months ago:
Sure, thanks for highlighting that. I wasn’t implying anything about the lesson we should take away, just that the article didn’t seem particularly information dense, it was mostly recapping a reddit comment.
- Comment on [deleted] 3 months ago:
Short version: Reddit commenter says their resume system was automatically rejecting all candidates because it was looking for familiarity with the language “AngularJS” instead of “Angular”.
- Comment on unzip 3 months ago:
Yeah, seems mean spirited.
- Comment on Another job lost because of technology 👿 3 months ago:
How widespread was this? I grew up in the 80s/90s and pre GPS we just had a map in the car. I’ve never heard of such a hotline until seeing this post.
- Comment on Is there a wig that doesn't heat your head? 4 months ago:
I wouldn’t be surprised if there were something about different types of wigs that make them hotter than just having natural hair. That said, I’m not sure we have people with subject matter experience in the thread here.
Like this thread over at the wigs subreddit is already talking about terms I’m not familiar with, so that seems like a promising place to start.
I’m on lemmy because I disagree with the ownership direction at Reddit but they have an enviable user base in terms of size and diversity.
- Comment on Trump Has Crossed a Truly Unacceptable Line 4 months ago:
Yeah, I’m starting to think this guy isn’t on the up and up!
- Comment on What started “weirdo” as a slur just recently? 4 months ago:
I’ve seen people say there’s good weird and bad weird, and if you don’t mind calling yourself weird it’s probably the good kind.
As for calling maga people weird I think it’s effective because their whole deal is about vibes. “We’re strong, we’re smart” and it really bothers them to be perceived otherwise. It’s also not something you can “debate”. Either people accept it or they don’t. What are you going to say “no, I’m not weird”? Sure thing buddy.
- Comment on Words truly matter 4 months ago:
Oh man we’d be so fucked if all plants were sentient. We’d still eat, but we’d be doomed to commit plant war crimes to live
- Comment on There are lots of different ways to make cum and they all taste pretty bad 5 months ago:
For making porn of course
