What's the point of specifically Americans identifying with other cultures if people born there will just make fun of them for it?

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Sorry to ask, I don’t want to seem ignorant but I really don’t get it. Like, I saw a post on someone identifying as Norwegian-American and I thought of what another commenter said that most people don’t do the stuff Americans do and how most people will see them as American. But I see many Americans strongly identify with a culture they were raised with. Is it still okay for them to do that? What’s the point?

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MurrayL@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
I think people make fun of it because to a non-American it comes across as deeply insecure. The trope is that the USA has no history of its own and so its people latch onto the smallest scraps of heritage via ancestry as a way to give themselves some cultural context and cachet.

I don’t think it’s invalid - in many cases the ancestry is genuine, even if distant and/or fractional. If it helps them find meaning or feel connected to something then I’ve got no issue with it.

The issues only really arise IMO if someone starts weaponising that ancestry or insisting they now have the authority to speak for a people they have no tangible connection to.

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- NotSteve_@piefed.ca ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
  
  The trope is that the USA has no history of its own and so its people latch onto the smallest scraps of foreign heritage as a way to give themselves some cultural context and cachet.
  
  I think this is fine in a vacuum but what gets really annoying is the simultaneous claim of being superior to any other nations and ignorance of the cultures they claim to be
  
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- Venator@lemmy.nz ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
  Another issue that can arise is people feeling more connected to some fractional heritage that they like, as a way to divide thier local community more and feel separate e.g. “Arian heritage”…
  
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- BassTurd@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
  One of my best friend’s future in-laws identify as Italian-american but have barely left their home state. Not malicious and they aren’t bigoted about that, but they act like they’re direct deceandeants when they’re a generation or two removed, which is annoying at worst. I won’t be critical of someone identifying with their heritage as long as it doesn’t disparage anyone else. They do make solid raviolis which is nice.
  
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ThunderQueen@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
My heritage is from multiple diaspora that have survived being exiled from their home numerous times. Denying that heritage for my nationality seems disrespectful of my ancestors. Especially since the american empire was a big part of that generational trauma.

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- IHatePepRallies@discuss.online ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
  Thanks , IDK why people are so against ___-Americans when they were raised with stuff from the culture
  
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  - ThunderQueen@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
    I mean, the american expirement is pretty new. Most other countries dont seem to have the same levels of immigrant and indigenous cultures. It makes sense that it seems odd to them. But many people here are from all over the word and they usually keep some form of tradition alive as a way to connect with that.
    
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  - GreenBeard@lemmy.ca ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
    Look, I’m of Scottish descent, but I’m not Scottish. It’s been generations since anyone in my family has seen scotch heather in anything but a photograph. I never went to a Scottish school, sat in a Scottish pew, and while I can understand the Scots dialect I couldn’t speak it to save my life. I have a few fragments of old traditions, some of which no one in Scotland even practices anymore. Sure, I like a nice dram of whisky or black pudding as much as the next guy, but I also enjoy sushi, that doesn’t make me Japanese either. So why would it make any sense to refer to myself as a Scottish-American? If I were a recent import or maybe 2nd generation, sure it makes some sense, but I don’t have the foggiest clue what life in Scotland is like. If you dropped me in Glasgow or Aberdeen without GPS in my pocket and asked me to find my way around I wouldn’t know where to start. So what gives me the right to call myself Scottish anything? Because my family held on to a few comforting traditions from a Scotland that’s been gone for more than a century?
    
    There’s a very old trope that the land seeps into your blood over time and no matter how far you roam from it, it calls you back, and shapes your character. It’s from the same school of thought that coined the phrase “Blood and Soil” and murdered people in gas chambers. It’s not a philosophy I have much attachment to, in spite of the fact I have one of those in my bloodline too.
    
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Griffus@lemmy.zip ⁨17⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
The US population never got to unify as one people with a common culture, so they identify with their DNA to have something similar to what most people in the world has, a place, a culture and millennia of history you are an ingrained part of. There was political will to try uniting the population in the first half of the 1900’s, but their racial focus kinda was a fork in the road for that whole project.

So while the rest of us see them as solely US-ians, we have to suffer through the “I’m 3,17 % Bohemian” bullshit. And it is really stupid, but I do understand where it comes from.

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Spitefire@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
I am of Italian descent but also Italian-American. Those are different things in my mind. Like, I am learning Italian and learning about Italian culture today (my father and I are trying to get our Italian citizenship although it’s a long road). That is separate from the Italian diaspora that my father’s family settled into as immigrants in the US. That community has it’s own cultural practices and nuances that may be roughly sourced from the same place as my ancestors from Italy, but they aren’t the same. I am proud of both, I see no reason to discard the Italian-American label just because Italians might make fun of me. I don’t pretend being Italian-American makes me Italian or able to speak for Italians or Italy.

That said, my mother’s side of the family is decidedly more WASPy and while I am no less accepting of that heritage, I see no real reason to deliberately celebrate it. It’s the dominant “culture” in the US and in no danger of being assimilated away. It may just be that those of us who came from a minority community (no matter how distant that status is from the present) feel driven to protect it on some level.

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DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
I call myself “Chinese American” because I was born in China and I can speak Cantonese, Mandarin, and can read basic Chinese.

Especially online because otherwise people just be white defaultist and assume you’re white. And I wanna be unique (while sharing the common national identity as an American).

I feel better about myself being unique.

Its also about self-esteem… I mean I get “jokes” thown at me all the time for being Asian looking… might as well just lean into it…

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- IHatePepRallies@discuss.online ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
  ohhhh, makes sense
  
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chocrates@piefed.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
Some communities are closer to their culture than others. I sometimes call myself Irish American but I didn’t grow up with Irish culture and know nothing about it.

l fantasize about moving to Ireland mostly because I hate America and want out, knowing that it’d be a big culture shock if I left and I may not get accepted because I’m American.

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RoidingOldMan@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
Some families are much more connected to their home country than others. Americans 3rd gen and beyond often have very little connection. The issue is where Irish culture is distinctly different from Irish-American culture, Italian different than Italian-American. You can’t go “back” to the home country and fit in. It’s not the same.

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- logos@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
  Irish-American is distinct from Italian-American too though and I think that has a lot to do with why some Americans consider it part of their identity.
  
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BranBucket@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
Slightly off topic, but does anyone have experience with there being a tradition of researching family histories and genealogy among later generation immigrant families in nations outside the US?

I’ve had multiple friends and relations start researching their family history with the intent of finding the first ancestor to immigrate to the US and their country of origin. As some others have said, I don’t believe these people consider themselves to truly be a part of that culture, but it’s a fun bit of personal trivia and some fresh new traditions to explore, so it gets talked about.

I wonder if that’s universal, or if it could be more of a phenomenon in the US and contributing to what the OP is observing.

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SirSamuel@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
I’m Appalachian. Yes I’m of Scotch-Irish descent and my family name is most definitely English, but I’m Appalachian. My forbears were rednecks and communists. And bigots. And public servants. And settlers (murderers of many indigenous peoples). And Union soldiers. In my ancestry are victims of rape and rapists. I’m most comfortable in Northern Scotland and Southern Scandinavia. The land calls out to something ancient within me. I want to raise sheep and live above a barn. My tribe is nebulous, and I’m at peace with that. Some are not.

The United States is a melting pot, and personal identity is both exalted and at the same time completely irrelevant. You’re “American” first, and everything else second. Some people cling to a tribe or identity to call their own. Since no one in Europe knows what a “Packer” is, they’ll say they’re Norwegian-American. They want recognition of their tribe. They want to identify with something bigger, and have the security of others of their tribe when they travel. They want connection. I would hazard that most who put their foot in their mouth while traveling don’t realize the faux pas. They think it’s a way of connecting with others from another place.

“Oh! You’re Italian? Hey, so am I! My mom makes the best Fettuccine Alfredo. I love cannoli. Do you like pizza? Please see me. Please accept me. I’m alone here and no one will riff with me. I’m trying to connect. I’m trying to meet you halfway. I’m trying…”

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leraje@piefed.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
There’s a fine line between celebrating the history of your ancestors and performative cultural appropriation. Being interested in ones ancestors is one thing - swearing that you’re ‘fiery’ because of your Irish ancestry when you’re 3 or 4 generations removed from that ancestry is a bit weird at best.

I think the US does have a culture all its own - some of the world’s best authors, musicians, artists etc are from the US. It does puzzle me that some US folks are so desperate to claim deep cultural ties when they have a pretty good culture already, formed in part from those ancestors.

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HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
Regarding those from “The Old World” this phenomenon isn’t unique to the USA. Most other countries in the Americas, Australia, New Zealand, and South Africa exhibit tying ancestry to not being of the land since time immemorial. It just happens to be that Americans tend to produce the most cultural discussion about it in volume, especially in the English language.

The big thing is recognizing that the culture of the land doesn’t match the culture of your “people”. It can be tough to reconcile that, especially if someone is from a mix of different origins.

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trashcroissant@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
So I’m not American but I do identify as Mexican-Canadian. I am an immigrant so for me that is a very important distinction.

In my perspective though, I wouldn’t ever want to make fun of someone for identifying as whatever. However, there is something about the cultural aspect of it that bothers me. If you are many generations in and have, for all intents and purposes, lost your connection with the hyphenated part of your culture, and don’t have any intent to learn with or contect with that culture other than by name, it does feel a bit preformative. If someone is actively reconnecting with their culture and trying to learn/understand more about their heritage, then it’s fine IMO, otherwise it seems disrespectful/appropriative. You can just as easily say “my ancestry is _____”, without claiming it as your culture.

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- U7826391786239@piefed.zip ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
  
  If you are many generations in and have, for all intents and purposes, lost your connection with the hyphenated part of your culture, and don’t have any intent to learn with or contect with that culture other than by name, it does feel a bit preformative
  
  i.e., an american saying “i’m italian” even though they don’t speak a word of it and have never been there, but grandma has an italian name
  
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