turning around and repeating every damn thing youāre told is a good way to end up never getting told anything
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U7826391786239@piefed.zip āØ6ā© āØhoursā© ago
hoppolito@mander.xyz āØ5ā© āØhoursā© ago
My partner tends to do the same and I am not sure how to start this discussion. We recently had a fight about our respective ways of interacting during arguments just before they get heated and talked about it afterwards, coming to a (what I thought) somewhat satisfying conclusion on the areas we could each work on. Fast-forward about a week and by now I have overheard her tell this āstoryā of our fight to about 5 different friends and family members on the phone, over the various days.
Like I said, Iām just not sure how to handle it - I donāt want to cut off her communication with friends. I realize sometimes you need to bounce off an idea youāre mulling over with a close friend. But I also feel there are certain private affairs I just donāt wanted chatted about to all our extended friend circle, and this is a pattern thatās repeated itself often enough now for me to recognize.
BuboScandiacus@mander.xyz āØ4ā© āØhoursā© ago
Maybe tell her ? If you donāt communicate they wonāt be able to just guess
hoppolito@mander.xyz āØ3ā© āØhoursā© ago
I mean yes, definitely, itās a topic I want to broach. But since Iām not even sure myself yet on my exact feelings or wishes I find it harder to open a gentle, full discussion - especially when it may be around adjusting some fundamental relationship assumptions like here.
But I definitely didnāt want to make it sound like a one-sided fault, as these things rarely are.
ThatGuyNamedZeus@feddit.org āØ6ā© āØhoursā© ago
Practice better OpSecā¦donāt reveal secrets to people who wonāt keep them
squirrel@piefed.zip āØ6ā© āØhoursā© ago
Is that Jim Carrey? Because I donāt know anymore.
archonet@lemy.lol āØ6ā© āØhoursā© ago
no, I believe thatās Walton Goggins if Iām not mistaken.
harmbugler@piefed.social āØ6ā© āØhoursā© ago
Walton Goggins
red_tomato@lemmy.world āØ6ā© āØhoursā© ago
I had the same reaction
red_tomato@lemmy.world āØ6ā© āØhoursā© ago
I donāt share anything to my mom unless I want it broadcasted to the world
pir8t0x@lemmy.ml āØ5ā© āØhoursā© ago
HowAbt2day@futurology.today āØ2ā© āØhoursā© ago
Mom disclosure agreements are one-sided.