Submitted 17 hours ago by cheese_greater@lemmy.world to [deleted]
It seems like te stupidest thing to me. Why are you going to attack someone who has politely asked you and/or your child to behave themselves or at least stop actively doing something harmful
The answer to your question is the 3rd and 4th words of the title.
Maybe the kid has ADHD level 2 and the parents are doing absolutely everything humanly possible already?
/parent to a level 2 ADHD kid
I don’t think that’s the scenario we’re talking about here.
I went undiagnosed for nearly 40 years and now I have three with very different levels and styles of ADHD.
There’s a difference between cutting the kids some slack because they are neurodivergent (hopefully they are still being held accountable and are being taught that they can’t do whatever they want without consequences) and reacting with “That’s impossible! My sweet baby would NEVER do that! You must be lying!” anytime you learn about what they’ve done.
That end part is almost it but theyre not even denying its shitty behavior. It that rapey “youre gonna tolerate it and shut the fuck up while they destroy any quality of life remaining for you here” or “fuckin move then”
Seriously fuck her
You answered your own question. They are crappy. When you identify how their kid is misbehaving it is a challenge to the parents.
Being crappy is a judgement, not a cause of anything.
Using it as such is a cop-out. A lazy way of dismissing something so you don’t have to try to understand it.
I honestly don’t know. If my kids are getting a raw deal, I’ll stick up for them, but if they are facing consequences for their own intentional actions, they earned those.
Kids who get away with anything won’t stop doing anything.
This is exactly my point. The stranger is giving a lifeline for a change
If they didn't, they wouldn't be crappy, would they?
disregardable@lemmy.zip 17 hours ago
Some people respond to correction by lashing out. That’s true for literally everything. Telling them you can’t smoke there, not washing their hands is gross, you need to take off your shoes in my house, etc.
grue@lemmy.world 12 hours ago
“Get your car out of the bike lane” gets 'em real mad every time.