That end part is almost it but theyre not even denying its shitty behavior. It that rapey “youre gonna tolerate it and shut the fuck up while they destroy any quality of life remaining for you here” or “fuckin move then”
Seriously fuck her
That end part is almost it but theyre not even denying its shitty behavior. It that rapey “youre gonna tolerate it and shut the fuck up while they destroy any quality of life remaining for you here” or “fuckin move then”
Seriously fuck her
Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 13 hours ago
I don’t know the situation, but are those her actual words or are you just guessing at her motives?
It might not have anything to do with you. Some of that sounds like it could be desperation. Possibly “I know he’s an asshole, but I’ve tried everything and he just keeps doing it! Why even bother?” add in some defensiveness because she’s feeling like a failure of a mom while you two are having the conversation about the behavior problems, and it could very well sounds like she’s angry with you.
Like I said, I don’t know, but no point in adding hostility where there could be teamwork.
cheese_greater@lemmy.world 12 hours ago
There cant be collaboration, I need it to stop and she will actively fight for her children to use the hallway in all the same ways as a playground. She has agency here but she uses all that agency and energy to snap against someone who is just the messenger