Is there ongoing harm flowing from any of it? That would be my focus otherwise its sort of just ruminating. Life is hard and complicated and its better served ensuring there’s not ongoing harm and appropriate boundaries are set and ultimately that past misdeeds be addressed as appropriateto ensure that and then closed.
If you think he’s bottom line done right by you + you enjoy him being in your life, close the matters and enjoy him. Be an example for him but not like patronizingly, show him you’ve learned from his mistakes and demonstrate he is mutually loved and cherished by you
Damage@feddit.it 1 day ago
You can love a flawed person