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- Comment on Is it weird to simultaneously feel love and hatred towards parents? 2 days ago:
Maybe? But I’d say it’s probably also quite common. Parent-child relationships are pretty intense at the best of times, and no one is perfect. No idea what your situation is, but it’s worth remembering that parenting is hard sometimes, and it’s easy to fuck up.
- Comment on Anon studies Organic Chemistry 4 days ago:
#NotAllConservatives
- Comment on Anon studies Organic Chemistry 5 days ago:
Everyone I know who’s ever done uni marking was getting paid a pittance and expected to work at an extremely fast rate… I kinda understand this
- Comment on Anon studies Organic Chemistry 5 days ago:
They do in conservatives’ anti-intellectual fantasies
- Comment on Financially illiterate Greens supporter appalled by PM schmoozing leader of world's biggest economy 1 week ago:
Sorry, I was critiquing Betoota, not you
- Comment on Financially illiterate Greens supporter appalled by PM schmoozing leader of world's biggest economy 1 week ago:
Solid miss on this one… Would have been more effective to just ignore it
- Comment on Load bearing Tupperware 1 week ago:
Agree. That’s not related to the point I was responding to though…
- Comment on Load bearing Tupperware 1 week ago:
Because hosting was more diverse before, so when shit happened it took out a couple of sites, not a quarter of the internet
- Comment on What's a bad habit you use to have for a long time but finally fixed? 2 weeks ago:
Caffeine is not particularly harmful at common doses…
- Comment on Which career to pursue? 5 weeks ago:
Decent Earning Options? In this economy?
- Comment on [deleted] 1 month ago:
Yes, absolutely. Both are possible. Different peoplwith different experiences and tendencies operate differently.
Also, there are lots of different types of love. www.ftd.com/blog/types-of-love
- Comment on The bullet engravings as per WSJ 1 month ago:
Big thread on this here:
- Comment on do you apologize, even if it's not your fault just to make the other person feel validated? 1 month ago:
Then I’ll do it. If it doesn’t cost me too much. I can’t see someone else’s perspective really, but I can at least be empathetic…
- Comment on do you apologize, even if it's not your fault just to make the other person feel validated? 1 month ago:
Yeah, that’s always gotta be true to some extent… If not, then the apology is gonna be insincere anyway. But it doesn’t mean that the regret has to be massive for you for the apology to be valid or useful.
- Comment on do you apologize, even if it's not your fault just to make the other person feel validated? 1 month ago:
I get that this is a joke, but there’s a good point there too: I don’t give apologies because they were demanded, if give them because I can see that they’d help improve the situation.
- Comment on do you apologize, even if it's not your fault just to make the other person feel validated? 1 month ago:
Yeah, I’m definitely assuming good faith above. I’m lucky that I’m mostly surrounded by people for whom that assumption makes sense.
- Comment on do you apologize, even if it's not your fault just to make the other person feel validated? 1 month ago:
Yes… Apologies aren’t about fault for me. They are about recognising other’s suffering, and possibly about acknowledging my contribution to that situation.
The apology isn’t about you, it’s about the other person, and showing you care about them.
- Comment on Why are a lot of statues vandalised with traffic cones in Scotland? 1 month ago:
Something to fill time while waiting for the kebab you ordered?
- Comment on [deleted] 2 months ago:
Relationships are complex. What’s “cheating” for some people is fine for others. And there’s usually a million factors complicating everything. Maybe you’re mum’s a bit naive, maybe she’s bang on. Both can be true in different ways.
- Comment on what books about personal boundaries do you know that don't mention god? 2 months ago:
Grammar that doesn’t cause headspins is a personal boundary, right?
- Comment on Lemmy be like 2 months ago:
That’s my point
- Comment on what are the grievances with the "male loneliness epidemic"? 2 months ago:
True that.
Just getting in to TTRPGs properly. It seems like a way to really solidify friendships, rather than to find new ones. But that’s still very valuable!
- Comment on what are the grievances with the "male loneliness epidemic"? 2 months ago:
Social hobbies are where it’s at. I’ve never met anyone meaningful at a concert. Hobbies (and activism) though, all the people all the time.
“Don’t have much time”… I guess it it’s important to you, you should figure out how to make time for it
- Comment on Evolution: 🖕 2 months ago:
So, uh, you reckon you could fit eight of those on one person?
- Comment on what books about personal boundaries do you know that don't mention god? 2 months ago:
This could do with a comma somewhere, I think…
- Comment on Australia Post halts transit shipping to US as global carriers face 'chaos' 2 months ago:
I wonder how many Americans are aware of this kind of thing?
- Comment on What's good options for groups of mods to communicate 2 months ago:
Not gonna happen - Lemmy devs aren’t interested in making a deeper messaging functionality: github.com/LemmyNet/lemmy-ui/issues/3074#issuecom…
- Comment on What's good options for groups of mods to communicate 2 months ago:
Signal or XMPP.
Why not Matrix?
- Comment on If suffering is good because it gives life meaning, wouldn't it follow that hurting people is good? 2 months ago:
Makes sense, thanks!
- Comment on If suffering is good because it gives life meaning, wouldn't it follow that hurting people is good? 2 months ago:
Goodness in one aspect doesn’t cancel badness in another…
It can be always bad AND sometimes good.