Even if the opportunity presented itself, it’s not necessarily the case that it would have come to fruition. Chances are that person wouldn’t have bothered to make a video even with your request, because they were likely panicking about their stuck ring. I’d be happy that my advice helped the person out without pushing my luck to get a video out of it too.
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Submitted 10 months ago by DayOk2@lemmy.world to [deleted]
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algorithmae@lemmy.sdf.org 10 months ago
DayOk2@lemmy.world 10 months ago
I talked with this person about recording it, and they said that they were actually going to record it by using a tool that can record these kinds of footages, had I not been too late.
algorithmae@lemmy.sdf.org 10 months ago
Okay, but you have to realize that they’re under no obligation to please you.
TheAlbatross@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 months ago
Is this tool called a camera, by chance?
Blyfh@lemmy.world 10 months ago
Genuinely, can we stop downvoting OP’s comments and post? No matter how little you can relate to this, it’s not justified to downvote someone not understanding why others find this weird. My god, this is No Stupid Questions, the last place where we should punish someone for confessing something that is important for them!
Be humane. Treat others’ struggles with respect.
fsxylo@sh.itjust.works 10 months ago
Downvotes on this site are effectively just a metric of how many stupid people saw your post. The rating system shouldn’t exist at all imo. It gamifies opinions.
TheFonz@lemmy.world 10 months ago
Are we starting a ‘best of lemmy hall’ because this shit is gold. Not broken arms reddit but it’s inching there
DayOk2@lemmy.world 10 months ago
I still don’t understand what makes this post special.
RIPandTERROR@sh.itjust.works 10 months ago
You not understanding is the special part ❤️
CarbonatedPastaSauce@lemmy.world 10 months ago
Therapy
algorithmae@lemmy.sdf.org 10 months ago
Legitimately the best answer here. OP sounds like they have tendencies that aren’t good for long term social and mental health.
SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 months ago
OP accidentally reveals their fetish.
(Just joking, but this is hilarious for some reason, I’m sorry)
DayOk2@lemmy.world 10 months ago
Okay, what makes this post hilarious?
abbadon420@lemm.ee 10 months ago
Sound slike you’re young? You’re going to miss a shit ton more of these kind of opportunities. You’re going to have to learn to deal with it and learn from it so that you don’t make the same mistake next time.
Opportunities aren’t rare, but theyre not common either. It’s best to seize as many as you can to get as much out of life as you can.
DayOk2@lemmy.world 10 months ago
Okay, but the thing is that while I also had other regrets, they were lessened after waiting. This however, seems like it is not going to lessen at all. Even if it seems like the regret disappeared, it comes back after one or a few days. My question is how to deal exactly with missed opportunities.
abbadon420@lemm.ee 10 months ago
All you can do is learn from your mistakes and do better next time. That’s what mistakes are for, to learn. Without mistakes, you don’t learn.
NeoNachtwaechter@lemmy.world 10 months ago
Asking the person to get their ring stuck again just to record it is obviously not an option
But still… how about trying the method on your own hand? That way, if you forget again to record it, you can have all the blame for yourself. Or, in case you can’t take it off anymore…
DayOk2@lemmy.world 10 months ago
I recorded it a while ago, but my knuckles are too big, so the video was not that interesting. I am more interested in rings that get stuck due to swelling and fat fingers, not big knuckles.
borari@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 months ago
Damn bro. Porn sites pulling out of regions because of ID laws are really causing us to go to some weird places huh?
gandalf_der_12te@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 months ago
Honestly, these situations of spontaneous regret happen a lot to me, and they seldomly are about the thing that i’m supposedly regretting. Often, it is some deeply rooted issues in my brain instead, that just seek some kind of “replacement sadness”. So it’s probably not really about that thing (video in your case) but about something else, that needs time to express itself, sothat you can get over it.
RandomLegend@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 months ago
Wtf
DayOk2@lemmy.world 10 months ago
Hello, can you tell me what is wrong with this post?
RandomLegend@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 months ago
I have no idea why you would have regret about not getting an hour long video of someone removing a stuck ring