Submitted 9 months ago by DayOk2@lemmy.world to [deleted]
Even if the opportunity presented itself, it’s not necessarily the case that it would have come to fruition. Chances are that person wouldn’t have bothered to make a video even with your request, because they were likely panicking about their stuck ring. I’d be happy that my advice helped the person out without pushing my luck to get a video out of it too.
I talked with this person about recording it, and they said that they were actually going to record it by using a tool that can record these kinds of footages, had I not been too late.
Okay, but you have to realize that they’re under no obligation to please you.
Is this tool called a camera, by chance?
Genuinely, can we stop downvoting OP’s comments and post? No matter how little you can relate to this, it’s not justified to downvote someone not understanding why others find this weird. My god, this is No Stupid Questions, the last place where we should punish someone for confessing something that is important for them!
Be humane. Treat others’ struggles with respect.
Downvotes on this site are effectively just a metric of how many stupid people saw your post. The rating system shouldn’t exist at all imo. It gamifies opinions.
Are we starting a ‘best of lemmy hall’ because this shit is gold. Not broken arms reddit but it’s inching there
I still don’t understand what makes this post special.
You not understanding is the special part ❤️
Therapy
Legitimately the best answer here. OP sounds like they have tendencies that aren’t good for long term social and mental health.
OP accidentally reveals their fetish.
(Just joking, but this is hilarious for some reason, I’m sorry)
Okay, what makes this post hilarious?
Sound slike you’re young? You’re going to miss a shit ton more of these kind of opportunities. You’re going to have to learn to deal with it and learn from it so that you don’t make the same mistake next time.
Opportunities aren’t rare, but theyre not common either. It’s best to seize as many as you can to get as much out of life as you can.
Okay, but the thing is that while I also had other regrets, they were lessened after waiting. This however, seems like it is not going to lessen at all. Even if it seems like the regret disappeared, it comes back after one or a few days. My question is how to deal exactly with missed opportunities.
All you can do is learn from your mistakes and do better next time. That’s what mistakes are for, to learn. Without mistakes, you don’t learn.
Asking the person to get their ring stuck again just to record it is obviously not an option
But still… how about trying the method on your own hand? That way, if you forget again to record it, you can have all the blame for yourself. Or, in case you can’t take it off anymore…
I recorded it a while ago, but my knuckles are too big, so the video was not that interesting. I am more interested in rings that get stuck due to swelling and fat fingers, not big knuckles.
Damn bro. Porn sites pulling out of regions because of ID laws are really causing us to go to some weird places huh?
Honestly, these situations of spontaneous regret happen a lot to me, and they seldomly are about the thing that i’m supposedly regretting. Often, it is some deeply rooted issues in my brain instead, that just seek some kind of “replacement sadness”. So it’s probably not really about that thing (video in your case) but about something else, that needs time to express itself, sothat you can get over it.
RandomLegend@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 months ago
Wtf
DayOk2@lemmy.world 9 months ago
Hello, can you tell me what is wrong with this post?
RandomLegend@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 months ago
I have no idea why you would have regret about not getting an hour long video of someone removing a stuck ring