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• franklin@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  Sex doesn’t need to define you, neither does being a virgin.

  Sex is part of a healthy life but putting it on a pedestal and letting it impact your image of yourself will only lead to toxicity.

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  • TrenGoblin@lemmy.ca ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    The only reason why I’m putting sex on a pedestal is because I can’t stop thinking about it. That’s why I really wish I was Asexual so that wouldn’t think about sex anymore.

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• riodoro1@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  Is this 4chan?

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  • FeelzGoodMan420@eviltoast.org ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    /b/

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  • TrenGoblin@lemmy.ca ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    No

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• Rustmilian@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  Please don’t fall into that incel mindset.

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  • TrenGoblin@lemmy.ca ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    But the problem is I have no interest at all in being in a romantic relationship with women. All I want to do is pay a multiple attractive women to have sex with me. But unfortunately prostitution is illegal in Canada so unfortunately I will be a virgin forever.

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    • Rustmilian@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      Go join the porn industry.

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    • abbadon420@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      There are other countries than canada. But that probably isn’t a possibolity for you, with your can’t-do-attitude.

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    • jeffw@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      Fun fact: just because something is illegal doesn’t mean it’s impossible. Also, I know hookup culture has changed a lot in the decade and a half since I was your age but it’s still possible to have sex at not be in a relationship

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• FeelzGoodMan420@eviltoast.org ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  Bro. You’re putting the pussy on the pedastool.

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  • TrenGoblin@lemmy.ca ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    I’m putting sex on pedestal. Not women.

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    • FeelzGoodMan420@eviltoast.org ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      You literally said you wanna bang beautiful 18 year girls lmao. Girls have pussies. You’re putting the pussy on a pedestal bro.

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    • BreadOven@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      Grindr then?

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• loomi@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  Your issue is not that you are a virgin, it’s that you are a loser. Just get a fucking passport and go to Las Vegas or Reno and punch your ticket. You live right above these cities and there is a lot to do there for non sex fun. But noooooooo you can’t figure out how to buy an airplane ticket and reserve a hotel room. There is something called online travel websites. Try those and stop whining on the internet. Jesus….

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• Chee_Koala@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  Adding on to what other said (it’s not that big a deal): Just because prostitution is illegal does not mean you cant pay for a sexworker, it just makes it slightly harder to find. Making a porno is often legal, so just have a camera somewhere on a tripod and BOOM, welcome to the film industry ☺️. My local laws permit sexwork, and I don’t think it is amoral to sell sex, so if you don’t too and you are this fixated on it, ask around a bit!

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  • TrenGoblin@lemmy.ca ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    I don’t want to make a porno though. All I want to do is pay a very attractive woman to have sex with me just once. So that I’m no longer a virgin anymore. Because I believe that once I have sex. I will no longer care about it anymore.

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    • Rustmilian@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      “Software is like sex, it’s a better when it’s free” - Linus Torvalds.

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• Worx@lemmynsfw.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  In my experience, sex is like board games. It’s fun while you’re doing it, but the pleasure is finished soon enough. It’s not a life-changing event. If you don’t get to play board-games very often, or never before, or you just don’t enjoy it - that does not define you.

  I know you’re just venting rather than looking for answers, but sex isn’t as important as many people seem to think.

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  • TrenGoblin@lemmy.ca ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    The problem is since I am a virgin. I will never no if having sex is enjoyable or not.

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• Kolanaki@yiffit.net ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  I mean, you could get neutered. It works for dogs 🤷🏻‍♂️

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• BreadOven@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  You can literally find sex workers anywhere you are. I assume you can go online and find some. There’s always the yellow pages as well haha.

  But yeah, maybe work on your views. If you don’t work on the underlying problem, you’re probably not going to feel any better. Could probably seek a therapist via a doctor’s referral since you’re in Canada.

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  • TrenGoblin@lemmy.ca ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    Those sex workers that are online could be cops uncover so I don’t want to risk that because I don’t want to go to jail.

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    • BreadOven@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      Yes they’re actually all police trying to entrap you. Did you think about the latter part of my post? Also it’s kinda weird mentioning 18 year olds (I Guess unless you’re 18ish), if not, probably another thing to address with a professional.

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• KillerTofu@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  I want to scream like Lois Griffin every time you say grinds my gears.

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• nooneescapesthelaw@mander.xyz ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  Why don’t you get married etc…instead of paying hookers

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  • TrenGoblin@lemmy.ca ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    The reason why I don’t want to get married is because. All I want to do in life is lift weights, play video games and have sex with women everyday.

    I do not want to go on any dates with women and I do not want a woman to live with me in my house. Because I do not want anyone in general coming to my house.

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