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Is this 4chan?
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Submitted 11 months ago by TrenGoblin@lemmy.ca to [deleted]
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riodoro1@lemmy.world 11 months ago
FeelzGoodMan420@eviltoast.org 11 months ago
/b/
TrenGoblin@lemmy.ca 11 months ago
No
Rustmilian@lemmy.world 11 months ago
Please don’t fall into that incel mindset.
TrenGoblin@lemmy.ca 11 months ago
But the problem is I have no interest at all in being in a romantic relationship with women. All I want to do is pay a multiple attractive women to have sex with me. But unfortunately prostitution is illegal in Canada so unfortunately I will be a virgin forever.
abbadon420@lemm.ee 11 months ago
There are other countries than canada. But that probably isn’t a possibolity for you, with your can’t-do-attitude.
jeffw@lemmy.world 11 months ago
Fun fact: just because something is illegal doesn’t mean it’s impossible. Also, I know hookup culture has changed a lot in the decade and a half since I was your age but it’s still possible to have sex at not be in a relationship
FeelzGoodMan420@eviltoast.org 11 months ago
Bro. You’re putting the pussy on the pedastool.
TrenGoblin@lemmy.ca 11 months ago
I’m putting sex on pedestal. Not women.
FeelzGoodMan420@eviltoast.org 11 months ago
You literally said you wanna bang beautiful 18 year girls lmao. Girls have pussies. You’re putting the pussy on a pedestal bro.
BreadOven@lemmy.world 11 months ago
Grindr then?
loomi@lemmy.world 11 months ago
Your issue is not that you are a virgin, it’s that you are a loser. Just get a fucking passport and go to Las Vegas or Reno and punch your ticket. You live right above these cities and there is a lot to do there for non sex fun. But noooooooo you can’t figure out how to buy an airplane ticket and reserve a hotel room. There is something called online travel websites. Try those and stop whining on the internet. Jesus….
Chee_Koala@lemmy.world 11 months ago
Adding on to what other said (it’s not that big a deal): Just because prostitution is illegal does not mean you cant pay for a sexworker, it just makes it slightly harder to find. Making a porno is often legal, so just have a camera somewhere on a tripod and BOOM, welcome to the film industry ☺️. My local laws permit sexwork, and I don’t think it is amoral to sell sex, so if you don’t too and you are this fixated on it, ask around a bit!
TrenGoblin@lemmy.ca 11 months ago
I don’t want to make a porno though. All I want to do is pay a very attractive woman to have sex with me just once. So that I’m no longer a virgin anymore. Because I believe that once I have sex. I will no longer care about it anymore.
Rustmilian@lemmy.world 11 months ago
“Software is like sex, it’s a better when it’s free” - Linus Torvalds.
Worx@lemmynsfw.com 11 months ago
In my experience, sex is like board games. It’s fun while you’re doing it, but the pleasure is finished soon enough. It’s not a life-changing event. If you don’t get to play board-games very often, or never before, or you just don’t enjoy it - that does not define you.
I know you’re just venting rather than looking for answers, but sex isn’t as important as many people seem to think.
TrenGoblin@lemmy.ca 11 months ago
The problem is since I am a virgin. I will never no if having sex is enjoyable or not.
Kolanaki@yiffit.net 11 months ago
I mean, you could get neutered. It works for dogs 🤷🏻♂️
BreadOven@lemmy.world 11 months ago
You can literally find sex workers anywhere you are. I assume you can go online and find some. There’s always the yellow pages as well haha.
But yeah, maybe work on your views. If you don’t work on the underlying problem, you’re probably not going to feel any better. Could probably seek a therapist via a doctor’s referral since you’re in Canada.
TrenGoblin@lemmy.ca 11 months ago
Those sex workers that are online could be cops uncover so I don’t want to risk that because I don’t want to go to jail.
BreadOven@lemmy.world 11 months ago
Yes they’re actually all police trying to entrap you. Did you think about the latter part of my post? Also it’s kinda weird mentioning 18 year olds (I Guess unless you’re 18ish), if not, probably another thing to address with a professional.
KillerTofu@lemmy.world 11 months ago
I want to scream like Lois Griffin every time you say grinds my gears.
nooneescapesthelaw@mander.xyz 11 months ago
Why don’t you get married etc…instead of paying hookers
TrenGoblin@lemmy.ca 11 months ago
The reason why I don’t want to get married is because. All I want to do in life is lift weights, play video games and have sex with women everyday.
I do not want to go on any dates with women and I do not want a woman to live with me in my house. Because I do not want anyone in general coming to my house.
franklin@lemmy.world 11 months ago
Sex doesn’t need to define you, neither does being a virgin.
Sex is part of a healthy life but putting it on a pedestal and letting it impact your image of yourself will only lead to toxicity.
TrenGoblin@lemmy.ca 11 months ago
The only reason why I’m putting sex on a pedestal is because I can’t stop thinking about it. That’s why I really wish I was Asexual so that wouldn’t think about sex anymore.