I was in Footscray a while back and my husband said âweâll cross hereâ and I said âno we wonâtâ and we kept walking. He understood I saw something he didnât. So if youâre talking about personal safety yeah some people walk through life unfazed and for some of us (most women) have our eyes and ears open at all times whilst outside.
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wscholermann@aussie.zone âš6â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Do people honestly breeze through life living safe and carefree. I just canât. Way too many bad things have happened to live on such a delulu state.
CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone âš6â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Catfish@aussie.zone âš6â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Iâve been in Foots for eight years now. Totally seen some drug shit, but the unsafest Iâve ever felt had nothing to do with any of that. Boyo on the other hand has had repeated and frequent mugging attempts and is totally fed up. They really shouldnât try that, he hits fight mode at explosive speed and does not play nice.
CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone âš6â© âšmonthsâ© ago
We were walking through the mall? and I noticed a derro on the other side asking just the women a question and getting angry at their response. Itâs not my stomping ground so my senses were a little more heightened than usual.
melbaboutown@aussie.zone âš6â© âšmonthsâ© ago
I feel like the sleazy types have become bolder since the pando
Catfish@aussie.zone âš6â© âšmonthsâ© ago
At the moment the ones to look out for serm to be a young guy begging at the main atm (total scam) snd one near the station slapping fake spiders off people to cop a feel
Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone âš6â© âšmonthsâ© ago
It depends what you choose to focus on.
If I let what Iâve experienced be my focus I would dig a hole and lay down in it.
From my perspective, I do my best to never let any of the negative stuff Iâve experienced stop me from living the life I want.
I fail often. But I never give up. We may not be able to change the things that make our lives harder, but we can still live our lives on our own terms.
Seagoon_@aussie.zone âš6â© âšmonthsâ© ago
even people who live a financially secure life can have bad things happen. Illness, accident, bereavement, interactions with bad people, victims of crime, natural disaster could happen, war
Like Pilk said, the middle path is best. It can be a struggle tho to remember that bad times are usually short lived,
But more than that âŠ
Iâve read whole books on this, philosophy and psychiatry books. People who live best are those who have stable healthy relationships with friends and family . This helps them cope with adversity and brings extra joy in good times.
Pilk@aussie.zone âš6â© âšmonthsâ© ago
You come across as a naturally pessimistic/depressive person. There is absolutely a middle ground between that and delusional optimism.
StudChud@aussie.zone âš6â© âšmonthsâ© ago
đđ
dumblederp@aussie.zone âš6â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Per Buddhism, Sickness, ageing and death are universal sufferings, everyone experiences them. The First Noble Truth is that All life is suffering. Thereâs no escaping it. Sure some people have what appear to be easier lives, but everyone is suffering. The theory is that we get to choose how affected by that suffering we are.
melbaboutown@aussie.zone âš6â© âšmonthsâ© ago
I sure donât.
SituationCake@aussie.zone âš6â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Itâs true that some people have an easier path. It starts right at birth, eg born to good family, no serious health issues, no disabilities, born into a safe neighbourhood, opportunities at a good school, etc. Or unlucky to get all the opposites. And then stuff happens in life, a lot of which we canât control. The good and bad stuff is not evenly distributed. Some people get lots of good, some lots of bad, most of us get some of each. All you can do is make the best of the cards youâre dealt. Thatâs it. Itâs normal to be more cautious and pessimistic if youâve had a lot of bad stuff happen. The trick is to find ways to move forward, and say to yourself each day is a new day.
TheWitchofThornbury@aussie.zone âš6â© âšmonthsâ© ago
No. Or rather, not all the time. Iâve had some baaad shit when I was younger which was largely of my own making, but have come now to a safe haven. Which I will defend with my life. I intend to live long enough to be a nuisance to my younger relatives. It will be good for their souls if they have any such thing. This should not be difficult I think.