Comment on Anon pretends to be a girl online
lol_idk@lemmy.ml 3 weeks ago
Can someone explain why men do this? It takes me just a few messages to figure it out most of the time. What’s the motivation?
I often play RPGs as a female character, as a means of stepping outside of myself and actually, you know, role-playing. But I seldom play online games, and do not try to convince anyone that I’m a woman irl.
Still, it’s interesting how people assume that because I’ve chosen to spend my game time watching a female avatar run about, I must be a woman. I’ve been in some sticky situations, but none thus far involving anyone claiming to be lesbian.
“If I’m gonna stare at an ass for hours it may as well be a hot one” is a reason I’ve heard.
The last descendant seems to be leaning hard on that demographic as well. The outfits are… Basically shovelware mobile game coomer shit.
That used to be my personal reason, but nowadays, I end up picking female characters even in games like Terraria where there isn’t exactly much sex appeal going around. Turns out I like the sounds too, and not just dialog. I prefer hearing a girl grunt instead of some big macho man when I’m jumping or getting shot or whatever.
Thanks for the recommendation!
Haha. If you wanna jork it then go for it. The gameplay doesn’t look bad either but the grind is somehow worse than destiny 2, and optimal builds are more complex than borderlands.
Also unfortunately most of the coomer skins are premium macrotransactions.
Honestly I’m not really an arse enthusiast so there’s not a great deal of that going on in my case. It does make me laugh though when gamerdudes moan about the “gayness” of having to play a female character.
how sticky are we talking about
Exactly as sticky as you’re imagining, I’m afraid. I was sent photographs.
Yeah, when I play an RPG and I create a character, I’m creating a whole character, not just a self-insert one. That character has a name, a backstory, a way of thinking, skills, experiences. When that character decides to join the Stormcloacks, it’s not because that’s what I would do. It’s what the character would do.
Some of those characters are women. Some are nonhuman. It’s a character, it’s not me.
There are a few reasons I can think off:
But just like the anon described, it’s one of the first two.
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isolatedscotch@discuss.tchncs.de 3 weeks ago
also some minor mental illnesses but we don’t talk about that
shneancy@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
honestly when i was a kid i always picked male characters (despite being afab) because “the clothes looked better”, fast forward a couple of years, i transitioned to male and i realised i used video games as my main escape from worsening gender dysphoria
absentbird@lemm.ee 3 weeks ago
I knew a guy who used that exact same reasoning to play female characters. It’s funny how the way you want to look in a videogame can sort of tap into subconscious desires sometimes.
“Obviously I couldn’t dress like that IRL because of gender rules, but since I can choose my gender in this game…”
It’s sort of like The Button thought experiment.
WeLoveCastingSpellz@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 weeks ago
same as an amab I always used to play women cause they got better clothes. I am not trans tho, I mean probably not.
TheSlad@sh.itjust.works 3 weeks ago
Girls just have better clothes in general. I like clothes shopping with my daughter all the outfits and dresses are so cute and fun, theres so much variety! Clothes shopping for my son is such a bore :/
For reference I am dad, and theyre both in elementary school.
nikaaa@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
I don’t like to call it “mental illnesses” because it makes it look like it’s a feature/bug of the person; however, it is a feature/bug of society:
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