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• FederatedSaint@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Having no actual presence on social media

  I’ve got some bad news for you…

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  • wesker@lemmy.sdf.org ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    I meant no actual presence on social media where I’m not using a pseudonym, and exchange profiles with the general public that I meet.

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  • tyler@programming.dev ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Forums are not social media. How is this hard to understand. Forums have existed for decades longer than social media and if you include forums in the definition of social media then you literally by definition include every comment section on every blog, news site, and even things like the FCC request for comments from citizens.

    It’s absolutely idiotic to include forums in that definition. You make the definition so wide as to be useless.

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    • jawa21@lemmy.sdf.org ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      People have gotten confused and declared that any internet based activity that involves interaction is social media. Social media is centered on users (you follow other people, not topics, and people for whatever crazy reason use their real name), whereas there is absolutely no real reason to do that on a forum.

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      • Emerald@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        Social media is centered on users (you follow other people, not topics

        This is the exact reason I never became interested in Mastodon. Following people just isn’t my style. The only social media I use is YouTube (without an account) because apparently Lemmy isn’t social media.

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      • KillingTimeItself@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        if forums are social media, or the internet more broadly is social media, would that include shit like, newspapers? And like, the library?

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      • tyler@programming.dev ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        Great way to put it. That really is the root of it.

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• FoxyGrandpa@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  If that’s considered creepy then I’m john wayne gacy

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• jubilationtcornpone@sh.itjust.works ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  I find avoiding social media helps reduce encounters with the insane side of people who somehow appear to be relatively normal in real life.

  For instance, I actually like my inlaws in real life, despite having some very different views than they do. On Facebook however, they’re complete fucking idiots that I wouldn’t give the time of day because they would just argue with me about it.

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  • wesker@lemmy.sdf.org ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    It’s odd how that proxy allows people to act feral.

    Though I’ll admit to trolling a little bit here and there, so maybe I’m not the best example.

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  • SomethingBurger@jlai.lu ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    It’s funny, I’m the opposite. In real life, I openly advocate for seizing the means of production and guillotining the rich, but I don’t do that on Facebook because I don’t want to get banned.

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• hydration9806@lemmy.ml ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  I’ve had the opposite response. Generally I get a “good on ya, I should really delete it too”

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• solrize@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  I actually got a date once by saying I had 10 laptop computers and no Facebook account. Not a good match in other regards, but the person was cool about privacy.

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