Comment on Anon likes a woman

• Macchi_the_Slime@piefed.blahaj.zone ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Basically yes. Once things get too “close” or too “real” people with that attachment style tend to get really scared and bail.

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  • TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    and then they go around complaining to everyone how nobody is ‘deep’ enough for them or something similar.

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    • OryxAndCake@slrpnk.net ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Eh plenty aren’t, you just don’t meet them because they don’t bother trying to bond with people.

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• nanometer1625@thelemmy.club ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  That would be noble.

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  • caseyweederman@lemmy.ca ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    One might say inert.

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    • OryxAndCake@slrpnk.net ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      aromantic asexual noble and inert

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      • caseyweederman@lemmy.ca ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        I like your username

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• captainlezbian@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  You can change your attachment style with effort. I naturally had disorganized attachment and my wife initially leaned towards avoidant (avoidant is more bailing or disinvesting when things get hard), but we’ve both done a lot of work and display secure attachment towards each other and in general these days

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