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did_you_find_violets@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

• halcyoncmdr@piefed.social ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  I can understand someone drawing a line between the playground and sewage facility when it comes to putting things in their mouth… But that’s not really the same on the receiving end.

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  • lightnsfw@reddthat.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    I’m going to want to kiss the person I’m fucking and if their mouth has been on an asshole I’m not going to do that. Sorry, it grosses me out and it isn’t as good as using it on my dick anyway.

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    • iltg@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      bidets

      i assume you pee from your dick so does this boil down to a ranking of bodily wastes?

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      • lightnsfw@reddthat.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        Yes? Shit is infinity grosser than piss. I want nothing to do with it near my face.

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      • Tollana1234567@lemmy.today ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

        even then faecal bacterium still clings around after washing it.

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• AbsolutelyNotSpez@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Next step: Grab the strap-on.

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  • QuizzaciousOtter@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    I would be okay with the strap-on but not with rimming. As another reply says, some people just don’t like the butt-mouth combination. I’m one of them.

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• Jaycifer@piefed.social ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  I put my partner in a hypnotic trance, crossdressed as a witch, “brewed” an aphrodisiac potion, fed it to them and then myself, cast a “spell” to freeze them in place, then fucked them with a tentacle that I “summoned,” but I can’t be kinky because I’m not a fan of applying lipshit. I’m glad you know what you like, but I think it’s good to recognize that kinks are by definition often very specific, and there are therefore so many different meanings a person can have when they describe themself as kinky. If someone tells you they’re kinky and the first thing you do isn’t clarify what kinks they have, that’s a communication issue, not something to shame them for. You don’t even know if they’re into shaming at that point!

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  • anton2492@lemmy.nz ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    Thank you, was going to respond with something similar.

    We don’t yuck others’ yums, but we also shouldn’t yuck their lack of our yums. Being kinky is not some linear progress bar you fill, it’s an incredibly varied spectrum of things that may or may not make us tick to any degree.

    To that effect, as with Jaycifer here, my play is mostly mental - the physical stuff matters less, and things like rimming aren’t even on the invite list.

    So gtfo here with all that “if you don’t like this then you aren’t kinky enough” shaming bullshit. Because it comes in so many forms, and that’s the awesome fucking part.

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• captainlezbian@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  I mean as a woman, I’ll gladly be beaten, I play with electricity and fire, and I’ve been in the leather community and power exchange scene most of my adult life, but rimming will take some convincing

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  • sharkweek@sopuli.xyz ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

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    • captainlezbian@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      Ok yeah if someone wanted to do that to me I might give it a shot. But yeah I wouldn’t be happy if she did it to me without a heads up

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• KuroiKaze@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Haha hilarious that your responses confirmed your thesis sadly. Eating ass is default in 26 y’all.

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