sharkweek

@sharkweek@sopuli.xyz

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨most perverted men are actually very vanilla and run away when faced with a perverted woman⁩ ⁨⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  “These days I feel butts are for hitting, grabbing, and displaying handkerchiefs.”

  Still plenty of repertoire there, then!

  As for hemorrhoids, between them and other issues from overuse, I ended up having surgery … can’t do internal butt stuff now, but at least I’ll get to old age with normal function. I miss it sometimes, but I guess that’s part of surviving far longer than anyone expected!

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨most perverted men are actually very vanilla and run away when faced with a perverted woman⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  You really lucked out there!

  It’s funny, I tried to explain to my wife on our first date and she totally didn’t understand the concept of BDSM … to her it was something baddies did on TV.

  Yet we settled into lifestyle D/s everywhere apart from the bedroom, lol

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨most perverted men are actually very vanilla and run away when faced with a perverted woman⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Ah ok, I assumed your objection would be for giving rather than receiving … typically “I don’t do butt stuff” crops up in conversation before you tie someone up, and that I would respect

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨my current daddy fling born in the 1970s⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  I think it’s genetic sometimes - I didn’t have a single grey hair until I was 35, which is when a bunch of health stuff kicked off.

  Still don’t have much grey at 48, and my grandfather was only about 50/50 when he died at 85.

  I have not had a stress-free life.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨my current daddy fling born in the 1970s⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Indeed. I seem to be a magnet for baby gays

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨most perverted men are actually very vanilla and run away when faced with a perverted woman⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Aww, that sounds so sweet! I’m glad you found at least one partner that you’re well matched with :-)

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨most perverted men are actually very vanilla and run away when faced with a perverted woman⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Yup, gotta say that it took a few years after being a pro with men that I felt any urge to domme … and now I’m looking for a compatible fem sub I’m not keeping my hopes up

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨most perverted men are actually very vanilla and run away when faced with a perverted woman⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Really?

  OK then, let me convince you - after a previous bad experience I just stick to the outside, where it’s easy to check everythings clean. You can even make cleaning the area part of the play.

  If you tie down your sub with their backside in the air, and reduce their senses with a blindfold, hood, or whatever, it can be a very very intense sensation for them. Plus, it can be a surprise, especially if mixed in with more harsh forms of play. I’ve never bothered with consent for rimming just on the outside, assuming they’ve consented to traditional s/m activities.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨most perverted men are actually very vanilla and run away when faced with a perverted woman⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Well, if you ever want an internet hug / spanking to take the edge off, let me know ;-)

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨most perverted men are actually very vanilla and run away when faced with a perverted woman⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  lol

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨most perverted men are actually very vanilla and run away when faced with a perverted woman⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Good girl.

  Now, get on your knees.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨most perverted men are actually very vanilla and run away when faced with a perverted woman⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  So you’re now a flustered naughty little boy in a dress?

  Such fun >:-)

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨most perverted men are actually very vanilla and run away when faced with a perverted woman⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  They found me, via advertising or word of mouth.

  I’m long since retired from that line of work, though.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨most perverted men are actually very vanilla and run away when faced with a perverted woman⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  I think it’s also function of toxic masculinity - to trust your body to someone else goes against everything that’s taught about being macho.

  To be blindfolded and tied is a very intense emotional experience, even before anything actually gets done … intense emotions are also considered bad by ‘tough guys’

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨most perverted men are actually very vanilla and run away when faced with a perverted woman⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Hi there :-)

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨most perverted men are actually very vanilla and run away when faced with a perverted woman⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Gotta sort the wheat from the chaff when it comes to guys.

  Much easier for WLW, if a girl says she’s kinky then even if it’s at the gentle end it’s gonna be fun ;-)

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨most perverted men are actually very vanilla and run away when faced with a perverted woman⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Protip - cut out coffee and drink pineapple juice, it makes your cum a lot more tasty ;-)

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨most perverted men are actually very vanilla and run away when faced with a perverted woman⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Not my experience, with the guys willing to hire a pro for general “kinky” stuff many didn’t want more than spanking and stern words … and that’s after they got over the psychological hurdles of actually talking to someone and confirming they had cash.

  IME lots of boys like the idea, but have a low tolerance for loss of control, and no confidence that even if worked up gently they would actually enjoy being pushed.