Yikes was this an internet one?
Comment on Discussion Thread 📚 Saturday 13 June 2026
Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone 1 week ago
I want to tell you about a date I went on recently.
We met at this Cafe I go to a lot, seemed nice, chatted a fair bit.
Made plans to go see a gig.
So far so good.
I turn up. See her at the bar. Walk over and say hi.
The first words out of this woman’s mouth were:
“I’ve got pills and coke”.
Now, I’m not a particularly smart man because my first thought was:
“holy shit this is the one!”
At the same time, I had a second more rational thought:
“Run dipshit. Ruuuuuuun!!!”
What I actually said was:
“yeah cool. Real talk: that’s not my scene hey. I’m going to bail”.
She was pissed off.
The end.
LowExperience2368@aussie.zone 1 week ago
Catfish@aussie.zone 1 week ago
Haha! I think dumpster guy still wins, but that’s a solid Nope story.
Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone 1 week ago
My red flag detector is still being calibrated.
Seagoon_@aussie.zone 1 week ago
yes, this is a thing
it’s not just learning, we have to unlearn the unproductive lessons we learnt in childhood, then rationally learn what we should have been taught , then use that new information a lot until it feels comfortable
It took me a long time for my feelings to catch up with my rational mind when it comes to behaviours/red flags, especially subtle red flags .
I think you’re doing great. 🏆😘
can I say do not be afraid to confront triggers, real triggers that give you strong involuntary emotional reactions , they are huge clues as to what happened , follow the thought, follow the memories, defuse the trigger
Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone 1 week ago
I appreciate you posting this :)
My problem is that im an outsider. And outsiders can pick each other out in a room full of people, within seconds.
Now. Nothing wrong with being attracted to other outsiders. But there’s different flavours and you gotta be careful.
StudChud@aussie.zone 1 week ago
Okay that made me snort lol which is prolly what she ended up doing too
Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone 1 week ago
I’ve decided it’s best for everyone that I find a new Cafe…
SaneMartigan@aussie.zone 1 week ago
I’d’ve bailed too.
Bottom_racer@aussie.zone 1 week ago
The one that got away lol.
Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone 1 week ago
She lives rent free in my heart lol
SpinMeAround@aussie.zone 1 week ago
At least she was straight to the point!
CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone 1 week ago
On the first date too! Wow!
Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone 1 week ago
I mean it could have been a great night 11ish years ago lol