Imagine being so insecure that you are worried about how you cross your legs when you sit. People are so fucking weird
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blockheadjt@sh.itjust.works 1 month agoThere are different styles of crossing your legs. If you put one knee over the other, that style is often seen as feminine. Compare this with putting one ankle over the other knee (so the top leg is roughly flat) and that is seen as the masculine way.
I do both. Which one depends on the situation.
prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 month ago
LittleBorat3@lemmy.world 1 month ago
I am always cowboy style, could not fathom sitting like I wear a skirt.
The real reason it’s my stuff gets upside down and it’s too warm in the pants woman style.
peoplebeproblems@midwest.social 1 month ago
Lmfao what
One knee over the other is feminine? That’s fucking wild because I do it, my brother does it, my dad does it and my mom doesn’t.
Guess I better start wearing a kilt and “sitting like a real man” lmfao
DrDystopia@lemy.lol 1 month ago
If projecting an air of masculinity is important to you, perhaps? There’s a lot of subtleties that we socially and often unnoticed project, just ask the trans community.
peoplebeproblems@midwest.social 1 month ago
Ugh, yet another set of social norms to camouflage with.
blockheadjt@sh.itjust.works 1 month ago
It’s totally a thing, at least in public perception. For example, in Fortnite, there’s an emote called “Have a seat.” Here’s two of my skins doing it: Have a seat.
Notice anything? Spike and Chun-Li do totally different animations because they have different gender presentations.
peoplebeproblems@midwest.social 1 month ago
What the flip
Oh well just another thing that masculinity is wrong about.
imecth@fedia.io 1 month ago
It's just about bone structure at the hips, it's more comfortable for us to sit legs apart.