Comment on Anon gets his life in order

wizzim@infosec.pub ⁨18⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

• blockheadjt@sh.itjust.works ⁨17⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  There are different styles of crossing your legs. If you put one knee over the other, that style is often seen as feminine. Compare this with putting one ankle over the other knee (so the top leg is roughly flat) and that is seen as the masculine way.

  I do both. Which one depends on the situation.

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  • peoplebeproblems@midwest.social ⁨16⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Lmfao what

    One knee over the other is feminine? That’s fucking wild because I do it, my brother does it, my dad does it and my mom doesn’t.

    Guess I better start wearing a kilt and “sitting like a real man” lmfao

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    • blockheadjt@sh.itjust.works ⁨52⁩ ⁨minutes⁩ ago

      It’s totally a thing, at least in public perception. For example, in Fortnite, there’s an emote called “Have a seat.” Here’s two of my skins doing it: Have a seat.

      Notice anything? Spike and Chun-Li do totally different animations because they have different gender presentations.

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      • peoplebeproblems@midwest.social ⁨42⁩ ⁨minutes⁩ ago

        What the flip

        Oh well just another thing that masculinity is wrong about.

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    • DrDystopia@lemy.lol ⁨13⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      If projecting an air of masculinity is important to you, perhaps? There’s a lot of subtleties that we socially and often unnoticed project, just ask the trans community.

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      • peoplebeproblems@midwest.social ⁨12⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        Ugh, yet another set of social norms to camouflage with.

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  • prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨10⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Imagine being so insecure that you are worried about how you cross your legs when you sit. People are so fucking weird

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• XTL@sopuli.xyz ⁨10⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  Some toxic bs like that.

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• rumschlumpel@feddit.org ⁨18⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  Manspreading? I have no idea.

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