Look at this dude… Being happy
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bcgm3@lemmy.world 10 months ago
I had a girl cancel and reschedule our first date shortly before we were supposed to meet up. That date happened, and she confided in me that she’d done that on purpose to gauge my reaction and general demeanor before actually coming out to meet me. I respected that move, and I think I would have been okay with her bringing a friend instead, as long as it was just the once.
Anyway, that was eight years ago, we’re married now.
MashedTech@lemmy.world 10 months ago
Alaknar@sopuli.xyz 10 months ago
Quick! Scan his post and comment history to find something to bring him down!!
Surp@lemmy.world 10 months ago
Weakness identified!
banause@feddit.org 10 months ago
I bet he misses a lot of MtG sessions. 😏
Estebiu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 months ago
Who do you think you are, flexing your relationship like that.
markovs_gun@lemmy.world 10 months ago
You’re a dumbass for playing along with such insane bullshit but I’m glad it worked out for you.
qarbone@lemmy.world 10 months ago
I don’t think “begrudging women a single test to see if someone is the type to explode over a single inconvenience” is the right hill to stick your flag on.
zaphod@sopuli.xyz 10 months ago
Trying to start a relationship by playing games is very much a good place to find red flags.
qarbone@lemmy.world 10 months ago
It might seem like a game to you but that’s someone’s life.
Do you have an alternative for how they should determine if a potential partner is a danger? Besides hiring a private detective or rolling the dice by finding out after they’re invested?
Dnb@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 months ago
Yeah, I’d say it’s a red flag except there are a ton of crazies that this quickly filters for them and keeps them safe from.
So in an ideal world it would be bad, but it makes sense in the one we live in.
banause@feddit.org 10 months ago
Mr. Fancy-look-at-me-i’m-married-pants
WelcomeBear@lemmy.world 10 months ago
Nice that it worked out but deception and playing games would be a huge red flag for me. Nothing about that instance in particular, it’s just that I’d always wonder “is this situation for real or another trick?”
OozingPositron@feddit.cl 10 months ago
Or does he?