Comment on Why do people care so much that their friend or family member’s partner is attractive and not just loving?

Zenith@lemm.ee ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

• abysmalpoptart@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Aggressive lmao

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• relation_anon4238@thelemmy.club ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  He’s very attractive to me and his personality is great!

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• starlinguk@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  You can be attracted to someone who isn’t “attractive”. Many people are.

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  • dream_weasel@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Many people are themselves not particularly attractive, so this is may be a matter of realistic expectations.

    It’s only interesting when there’s a large disparity in attractiveness which is generally anomalous. I think “many” falling into this category is probably an overstatement.

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• melsaskca@lemmy.ca ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Better to be attracted by the person you love. In most cases men will fuck anything given the opportunity and they sure as hell don’t care about aesthetics when in that situation.

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  • Allero@lemmy.today ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Nope, just not true.

    Sexuality is heavily tied to aesthetic attraction, in most men too.

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  • abysmalpoptart@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Respectfully going to disagree with you. I’m sure there exist both men and also women who will do this, but by no means is this the norm.

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• SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  I see what you did there

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