Tarquinn2049
@Tarquinn2049@lemmy.world
- Comment on Anon confesses a secret 1 week ago:
Uhh, that kind of just sounds like a convoluted excuse to look at pictures of OP and play it off like there is some valid reason why the rest makes any sense…
- Comment on Anon considers LASIK 1 week ago:
*“Optional” glasses are a hotness super power.
Real glasses are more about how you see than how you look.
- Comment on Anon considers LASIK 1 week ago:
The most important thing to remember, is they also put you on a medically supervised dose of what is essentially an anti-anxiety medication. So you actually like don’t care at all during the procedure. Like you are fully aware and fully alert, but you are super cool with what is going on. It’s all chill, a totally normal thing, could do it every day if need be.
- Comment on Stardew Valley creator says he might make Stardew Valley 2 5 weeks ago:
Not sure specifically when they were added, but they are there now. Play the game once every 3 years or so, hehe. Last playthrough we did a 6 player group game. Basically played it like it was dnd sessions. That playthrough had the move speed stuff. Comes from a book seller. So if you know when that book seller was added, it would be then probably.
- Comment on Stardew Valley creator says he might make Stardew Valley 2 5 weeks ago:
I think it might happen in 10, 15, 20 years… but not any sooner than that.
- Comment on Stardew Valley creator says he might make Stardew Valley 2 5 weeks ago:
There are plenty of both prrmanent and temporary speed increases, with the permanent ones you are almost as fast as the horse. And with temporary ones you can be faster than it. No need for mods, just base game.
- Comment on Stardew Valley creator says he might make Stardew Valley 2 5 weeks ago:
Recently? Or early on? The slingshot controls got an accuracy rework and also the option to be aim direction instead of pullback direction if the player prefers.
- Comment on 8BitDo no longer shipping to US from China due to Trump tariffs 1 month ago:
Just bought one in Canada a week ago, it came in through Vancouver, like pretty much everything else does.
- Comment on Anon dreams of onigiri 1 month ago:
Serious answer, the stress. Combined with maybe it having been a bit. There are lots of smaller factors that may or may not have been present too. Sleep position, blood flow restriction, restless legs… lot’s of little things that can add up.
- Comment on https://lemmy.zip/post/37479548 1 month ago:
In the mean-time, Veloren already exists, and seems to be exactly what this is planning to be. An open source voxel mmo world builder rpg.
- Comment on https://lemmy.zip/post/37479548 1 month ago:
Also, it’s basically the same thing as Veloren, another current open source mmo voxel world builder rpg. But looks like maybe smaller voxels on average.
- Comment on [deleted] 1 month ago:
You won’t find them in real life, they hide from that.
Actually, I know a few people that would be like this without the influences our local autism society social group has on them. Being brilliant in some areas and not as much in others can really twist a brain up depending on which areas. I got lucky with my strengths and challenges, I’m said to have infinite patience(not really the case, but relatively, close enough), and the ability to understand and relate to both Neurodiverse and Neurotypical individuals well. So I volunteer as a go-between, essentially an interpreter/mentor. I help the parents and kids get along, even if the “kids” are older than me. I also still live with my parents at 40, as despite some of my strengths being useful, I haven’t found anyone willing to pay for them. So I just try to help people with my time, either in real life or online.
- Comment on Did the western world just suddenly go back to pretending wrestling is "real" for some reason? 1 month ago:
Wrestling and the media surrounding it will always be written/performed as though it is real. There were just as many adults that knew it was fake when we were kids that didn’t. It’s santa clause and easter bunny style culture. Once you are disillusioned, if you want to continue being involved, you join in on the act.
- Comment on ‘Brooklyn Nine-Nine’ Has the Most Words Per Minute of Any TV Show, Study Finds 2 months ago:
There is still very much pacing. It’s just done through cuts to other cast members now. So you effectively have 3-5 well-paced stories intertwined per episode, as well as different arc lengths weaved in too.
- Comment on The Director of ‘A Minecraft Movie’ Is OK with Chaos During Screenings: ‘People Are Making Memories’ 2 months ago:
If you are unfamiliar with it in-game, it’s that mini-zombies have a chance to spawn riding a chicken.
- Comment on Chipotle offering a discount, while warning they may also inflate prices and delivery fees simultaneously 2 months ago:
I haven’t been to a chipotle, but it sounds from readingnhere that it offers the same thing Subway and Harveys do. No presumptions, no need to ask them to remove anything. You ask for exactly what you want, and as a bonus, you even get to watch it being made. For people that have allergies, sensitivities, and many of the various food related neurodivergencies, like super taster, hypersensory, ARFID… basically anything that makes you feel like a jerk ordering from other places, it’s refreshing that our order is easier rather than harder. Feel like less of a burden.
- Comment on Tokyo Xtreme Racer is a novel throwback to classic PS2 racing games like Midnight Club 2 months ago:
Awesome, that’s what I was hoping to hear. I miss the olden days when it was more realistic that you had to/could work for your car. Now that isn’t even believable in a video game world and it’s been replaced with winning cars in a lottery, the only believable way for people to afford a nice car nowadays. Hehe.
- Comment on fuck this asshole 3 months ago:
I personally don’t support people saying that either. Punching people in the face is not a great way to change their minds that they are being “the bad guy”. And I think seeing alot of people post that, is counter productive to the goal of getting along and solving problems together reasonably.
- Comment on fuck this asshole 3 months ago:
Free speech isn’t intended to supercede criminal law. Advocating for hurting people is a crime. If they want to do it and have it be covered as “free speech”, they need to start by changing the law.
- Comment on Anon plays a farming sim 3 months ago:
Hehe, yeah. Honestly, that could be describing the British and American armed forces at some points in history. It just talks about military might and blitz tactics. Nothing about murdering their own people or lethal experimentation or mass mass incarcerations without just cause. And while it certainly “seems” like they would probably be pretty authoritarian, it doesn’t really say that either. And authoritarian also isn’t automatically fascist or nazi. Just a common component of them.
The tactics described are actually pretty normal war tactics.
So, just an army guy. Lots of women like army guys for their discipline and reliability. Especially when there is not an active war going, all the upsides with none of the drawbacks. Presumably, in this game, we can expect he won’t get called away to war. Probably a bit more popular with conservative women than liberal women, but not by as much as you might think.
And as for the older guy, not only are there indeed 20 year olds that find that attractive, but 30 and 40 and 50+ year old women are playing these games too, in fact it’s one of the highest female demographic game types. Not to mention, if non-hetero relationships are possible with any partner, that dude looks like a prime bear candidate for the guys that like that.
- Comment on Hundreds of your Warner Bros DVDs probably don't work anymore 3 months ago:
- Comment on Anon is confused 3 months ago:
I’m not hoping the person from 4 chan is also in here, just giving general advice for anyone reading it now.
- Comment on Anon is confused 3 months ago:
One way to understand them better is to occasionally talk. Cuz like, guys and girls are actually incredibly similar. A couple of conversations a day, with the occasional really good conversation, can go a very long way towards understanding each other. Everything you don’t talk about is one more thing you won’t understand.
- Comment on Jon Stewart lacerates hand on air, for the second time. 3 months ago:
Yeah, must have been like a high speed stream of compressed air or something. Hehe.
- Comment on [deleted] 3 months ago:
Due to the way federating works, a lot of regular users across different servers and clients will see the original content for quite a while too.
- Comment on HELP! How do I help educate my son about his body when I know nothing about boys?? 3 months ago:
I think you are downplaying the effect of current style social media. The cycle and spirals they perpetuate to people that don’t know they should be swimming against the current, rather than letting it carry them where it is going.
- Comment on HELP! How do I help educate my son about his body when I know nothing about boys?? 3 months ago:
If that is where you are coming from, I think it might be worth giving the first message in this thread a second read. You may have brought more to it than what was written. I agree that it’s not “100%” as they stated, but it is -a- percentage and shouldn’t just go unsaid. Other than the “guaranteed” wording, the message is pretty much the same as what you are saying.
- Comment on HELP! How do I help educate my son about his body when I know nothing about boys?? 3 months ago:
I’m not saying it “does” fit. I’m writing that to her. As she gave no indication or contraindication to whether it applies. Other than asking what our experiences were and what relevant advice would have fit our experiences… these are experiences that were had, and the advice that would go with them.
- Comment on HELP! How do I help educate my son about his body when I know nothing about boys?? 3 months ago:
Yeah, it’s definitely not an “every male” thing. But other than that, it does contain good advice if it does end up being relevant. And if non-conservative males are tough to find in her area, odds are higher that her son could be encountering those types of influences outside the home.
I was a “relatively” weak guy growing up, videogames with no exercise or weights, I did do some physical chores and participated in most of my gym classes, lol, but I was for sure still way stronger than my mom, and she had a manual labour job. It is unfortunately very likely to be the case even if you grow up a nerd as a guy. And, in the potential case of him growing up athletic with a non-athletic mom, it can indeed be a huge difference. Not quite a shrek and fiona thing… but not as far off as we’d hope.
It can be a reasonable fear as a single mom to a teen guy growing up in a conservative area. And while it isn’t a description of every guy, if the description is sounding like it fits, then those are valid concerns and things that should be addressed and headed off before they can’t be.
My brother wasn’t very athletic either, but a little more than I was. And he wasn’t very rebellious, but a little more than I was. Only once did he ever hurt our mom physically, and it was when he was 13 and treated her the same way he would treat his friends in a heated argument, just gave her a shove… they both learned very quickly that a different approach was needed. That was with a kid who felt bad that he hurt his mom… we had friends(temporarily) that didn’t feel bad about that… those friends stopped being friends pretty quick and are mostly in jail or dead now.
We live in a small town, not super religious or conservative, but I would guess about half and half. And it was about 10% of boys that this advice applied to. In a place where conservatism or religion are further entrenched, that percentage doesn’t just go up linearly. The less sources of proper behaviour you see to counter the argument that people should behave “naturally”… even the nerds eventually succumb.
Be glad you had a childhood where this advice comes across as ridiculous.
- Comment on Does anyone else feel an inexplicable urge to talk to people early in the morning/late at night? 3 months ago:
Yeah, I don’t know if it’s from my adhd or my autism, but I do get maybe a bit manic or something between midnight and 3 am. Usually takes the form of leaving a couple pages of discord message to my brother or friends. My brother is ok with it, he has his phone silent at night anyway, friends can go either way, lol. I usually apologize once I notice I’ve done it. Hehe.
Most of my online communities are ok with it, but I, of course, tend to be drawn to other neurodiverse people socially, so that kind of makes sense.