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- Comment on Martians Stay Mad _💪_ 1 day ago:
- Comment on thank you for your attention to this matter 6 days ago:
Is this Anubis?
- Comment on I think NAMBLA or some other similar org might buy them... 6 days ago:
Paywalled, doesn’t even allow to view a word but the title.
- Comment on Tasting the Smell ☣️ 1 week ago:
What’s B.O.
- Comment on Feels like someone's podcasts are being heavily promoted 1 week ago:
That’s why I use AntennaPod: completely open-source and add-free.
- Comment on New textbook for 9th grade students in Greece promotes right and alt-right ideology 1 week ago:
Of course this is true, but it this combined with the other points teaches girls that it’s normal for men to use violence and therefore they should fear them.
Don’t see these points in the snippets you provided. Some men use violence, and they should account for that when calculating a path. Don’t see a better way to teach it.
Yes, but what if the government is the one supporting these ideologies.
Scientific consensus can be taught in a neutral way.
- Comment on Contemplating on playing a controversial developer's bought game 2 weeks ago:
Well, you already spent the money, might as well waste theirs on datacenter costs.
- Comment on These corpos who feel entitled to Open Source code 2 weeks ago:
Have you tested it?
- Comment on These corpos who feel entitled to Open Source code 2 weeks ago:
This is most definitely a joke website. Half of the links don’t work. They are hosted on GitHub Pages. And these passages in FAQ:
Can I see the robots?
Our robot workforce operates in a secure facility in [LOCATION REDACTED]. Tours are available for Enterprise customers who sign our 47-page NDA. - Comment on Is it reasonable to tell a person you once loved about the fact years later? 2 weeks ago:
We send each other birthday congratulations. I was planning to attach this information to one of them.
- Comment on Is it reasonable to tell a person you once loved about the fact years later? 2 weeks ago:
You all will NOT gaslight me into thinking I’m insane. You. Will. Not.
- Comment on Learn a trade 2 weeks ago:
Because it allows to give your child a better education than your current salary would otherwise allow.
- Comment on Learn a trade 2 weeks ago:
Dept exists?
- Comment on How many people have driven right into that wall 2 weeks ago:
Vision and awareness and reaction speed have little to do with intelligence.
- Comment on Is it even possible to drop 20 lbs in a month? Are there any diets for people who want to go to the extreme? Kind of like celebs do for roles? 2 weeks ago:
The normal pace is 1 kg/week (~2lb), faster diet will lead to your body malforming, but it’s definitely possible.
Also exercise is not as important as proper diet. It’s better to do no exercise and eat little than burn many calories and eat even more.
- Comment on New textbook for 9th grade students in Greece promotes right and alt-right ideology 2 weeks ago:
Well, most men are objectively stronger than an average woman, are they not? It’s not about superiority, it’s about a fact you need to keep in mind before picking a fight.
Attention: not with their own and personal, political, ideological criteria, but with the criteria of the society, as they are expressed by the education policy of the current government. (emphasis mine)
You wouldn’t want every anti-vax and Holocaust/Holodomor denier teacher to teach only their point of view, right? They should make clear, at least in a neutral way, what the government/societal consensus thinks.
- Comment on Is it reasonable to tell a person you once loved about the fact years later? 2 weeks ago:
Ghosting someone is never an ethical choice and you know it, but I guess the level of “creepiness” depends on wording.
like bro you LOVED me without my input?
Isn’t that… The backbone of all classical literature?
You’re doing it for you not for her and that’s absolutely not love, it’s probably mental illness
My thought process was explained in full and honestly. You have a right to suspect me lying, but why would I?
- Comment on Is it reasonable to tell a person you once loved about the fact years later? 2 weeks ago:
Yes, I meant your replies in this thread. I have no idea what your post history is and no desire or reason to look it up.
I assume you have already looked it up after writing that; I would have a temptation. I want to clarify that the post about solar inclination-based geolocation where you were also present was a part of a separate thought process going on for a few days and it being posted close in time was just a coincidence.
Just the way you are replying to everything and being overly analytical on everything. You seem to be trying to attack this problem like a programmer who is programming something. Dude, real life ain’t like that.
I thought “incels” (in modern degradatory definition) were supposed to be emotional guys who hate women because they don’t have feelings they want. Not people who approach dating rationally and try to estimate each other’s feelings using best scientific methods available. Never heard Sheldon Cooper, or Data from TNG being called this way.
BTW, I think you said you read just the post to her before getting this reaction, you never said anything about the comments.
How much dating experience do you have?
None, and I was never accused in being improper in trying to get into one—because I approach the subject rationally. I would never approach anyone in that way until I’m reasonably confident they are interested in me in a sufficient degree. Finding the most compatible person may be a lifetime-long quest, but it pays off at the end.
- Comment on Is it reasonable to tell a person you once loved about the fact years later? 2 weeks ago:
And for the love of everything holy and unholy, stop doing awkward shit like this! Your post is cringe enough, but hey, at least you are thinking before you do it. But your posts, are making me think you haven’t changed at all.
You mean comments?
Changed compared to what anchor point?
I read your post out to my gf just now, and she rolled her eyes and said, “Oh god, one of those guys. Is he an incel?” Then laughed.
May I ask what exact part of my post lead to her suspecting I was one (apparently in modern definition)?
- Comment on You've slandered lemmy.ml! The CCP is disappointed. Social credit reduced: -5000 2 weeks ago:
Would throw in that one emote with a blahaj holding a sickle & hammer somewhere, but local law says 2 years prison, ironically.
Let me guess, an eastern-european post-soviet country? Many of them introduced laws like this after '91.
Not illegal where I live, I may add it if you would link emote and specify position preference.
- Comment on Is it reasonable to tell a person you once loved about the fact years later? 2 weeks ago:
I’m horrified and appalled by how the community perceived my intentions; at large, judging by the number of votes on comments in the conversation below, placing no doubt in them being nothing more than sick and twisted desire for attention.
The formula as I see it in my head is quite simple. I would want to hear this said to me; it would make my day; wouldn’t they want to hear it just as much? I waited for long enough that no special feelings are currently present.
- Comment on "Censorship" ☠️ 2 weeks ago:
Per ICD-11, pedophilia can’t be diagnosed if attraction is not acted upon or is distressing the patient. Also it doesn’t count cases where attraction is not primary.
- Comment on Maybe next time 2 weeks ago:
No need?
- Comment on Is it reasonable to tell a person you once loved about the fact years later? 2 weeks ago:
This entire desire is to boost your ego
I know it’s not, but I don’t think I have a way to prove the contrary over text correspondence, so think as you want.
- Comment on Is it reasonable to tell a person you once loved about the fact years later? 2 weeks ago:
I heard and counted your answer. Your answer was prefaced with a personal attack. You tried to invalidate the feelings I had and reflected on for years, the feelings that once motivated me to become a substantially better person, knowing me and the situation from a 726-character post. That personal attack was used as a part of your argument, so I found it reasonable to argue with it. By the number of downvotes, it seems the community largely agrees with the image you’ve got in your head, although I would argue you couldn’t have enough information from my post to make the loud claims you made.
- Comment on Is it reasonable to tell a person you once loved about the fact years later? 2 weeks ago:
You don’t love her.
Indeed, no longer I do.
You never saw what she was like outside of class, at home, at work, with her friends.
Bold of you to assume that didn’t happen just because I didn’t mention this in my concise post. We were friends, sometimes hanged out together, were guests at each other birthdays.
Telling her has nothing to do with her and everything to do with your own ego.
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- Comment on Fuck IMDB and fuck Amazon 2 weeks ago:
It is supposed to cover anything in the world worth reviewing: books, movies, games, places; but not many people are using it yet.
- Comment on Is it reasonable to tell a person you once loved about the fact years later? 2 weeks ago:
You’re… quoting an encyclopedia. On matters of romance and affection.
Well, someone was disagreeing with me on the definition of a word. What else was I supposed to quote? A dictionary?
I can just about guarantee you that reality is unlikely to fully match what you have in mind.
Not sure what you mean. We knew each other quite closely.
And… well, taken with your other replies and apparent reluctance to integrate and/or accept the rather consistent gist of the replies you’re getting, you’re starting to give off a wee bit of an incel vibe.
I… Don’t understand. The only replies I argued with tried to redefine love as someone that may not happen outside of an established relationship, a definition seemingly not familiar nor to Wikipedia, nor Britannica, nor Shakespeare, nor Dostoevsky.
Could you quote the parts where I’m giving “incel vibes”, please?
but it sounds like you may have the opportunity to rekindle a friendship, and then see if it goes anywhere as things evolve. If you push really hard on the romance angle, especially if this is a very out-of-the-blue thing for her, you’re very likely to squick her out and nuke any chance…
What part of “one-sided” could you miss? I’m not looking into meeting her again. She now lives thousands of kilometres away and definitely never liked me. My question had no hidden meaning: the “confession” was simply a matter of curiosity satisfaction, a reassuring compliment, and a way to close unanswered questions, as every person has a right to know of everything related to them in the highest possible extent.
- Comment on Is it reasonable to tell a person you once loved about the fact years later? 2 weeks ago:
Love is something that is built up over years of being in a relationship. No relationship, no love.
What?
From the Encyclopædia Britannica:
love, an emotion characterized by strong feelings of affection for another arising out of kinship, companionship, admiration, or benevolence. In a related sense, “love” designates a benevolent concern for the good or welfare of others. The term is also used to refer to sexual attraction or erotic desire toward another. Love as an individual emotion has been studied in several scientific disciplines, including psychology, biology and neuroscience, anthropology, and sociology.
Romeo and Juliet never got to live as a couple. Were they not in love?
We knew each other for 11 years, were bonded by various class activities. I believe that’s enough for the proper and pure feelings to form.
- Comment on Fuck IMDB and fuck Amazon 2 weeks ago:
Mangrove.reviews
