Ghosting someone is never an ethical choice and you know it, but I guess the level of “creepiness” depends on wording.

like bro you LOVED me without my input?

Isn’t that… The backbone of all classical literature?

You’re doing it for you not for her and that’s absolutely not love, it’s probably mental illness

My thought process was explained in full and honestly. You have a right to suspect me lying, but why would I?