Cris_Citrus

@Cris_Citrus@piefed.zip

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨The end is near⁩ ⁨⁨14⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago⁩:

  Fashion+ | Essential style ✨

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨"feminine"⁩ ⁨⁨23⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago⁩:

  I mean, with the pink looking underglow and black glitter looking duvet cover it does kinda give goth glam 😅

  My real question is why the fuck it looks like the bed is just permanently blocking the closet lol

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Lead writer Margaret Hamilton standing next to the finished Moon landing script⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  She has such a cute smile lol

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Oh no⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  Thank youuuuuu

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨We love hate!⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  There are fair critisisms to make of OP’s post, this is frankly not a good one. The difference is that op is in community (here, on lemmy) with the person who posted the meme, and op is entirely justified in telling people they’re in community with that their behavior is harmful

  We’re not taking about canceling someone or taking things off netflix, we’re talking about whether this platform with many trans people on it treats trans people, currently experiencing lots of vulnerability, with respect and care, or denigrates that already vulnerable group.

  The argument that vulnerable people can’t critisize people they’re in community with for not treating them with care when they’re actively threatened, just because it happens in the form of a post of a comedian’s joke, sucks.

  Personally, I pointed out this is a shitpost comm and the wrong place to vent, and that the images they’re comparing the referenced one to aren’t really the same thing. But please don’t tell vulnerable people they’re wrong to take issue with people posting hurtful things just because its a joke.

  Jokes can still denigrate and disrespect people. People are valid to want to be respected as human beings while online, and are entitled to saying they as a vulnerable person feel the people they’re in community with are failing to treat them with respect.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨We love hate!⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  Couple of thoughts-

  This is a shitpist community so serious posting about complaints with lemmy is likely to be poorly received regardless of how valid the hurt is. I’m not really a shitpost kinda person for the most part, but I’m REALLY not surprised venting hasnt garnered much positive reception (honestly I’m a little surprised the votes are almost even)

  And second, the posts you embedded are worse and kind-of a different things from the one being referenced. The people in the post being referenced isnt being compared to trans people on the basis that hes ugly or for any of the reasons that make him a gross person. Hes being compared to trans people in large part on aesthetic grounds and because he has though his own action created the way he looks.

  And theres a subtext to that that trans people’s appearances are manufactured and fake, and it drags trans people unrelatedly into commentary on someone people love to clown on, which feels shitty in the current political moment where trans people are being targeted. The post kinda gives me the ick, but its fundamentally not the same thing as the images you’re comparing it to where the basis of the comparison is that theyre ugly or look weird.

  But no matter the point, venting on the shitpost comm was never gonna get positive reception. I was confused with how many downvotes you were getting until I saw this was the shitpost comm of all places. I’m frankly surprised you’re getting any upvotes at all, on comments or the post itself, but I’m guessing all of that is from c/all or who didn’t read the comm.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Nintendo Switch 2 Joy-Cons Officially Have A Pay-To-Press Button⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  Wait, you have to have an online subscription to play with other people remotely anyway… Why does it matter that you can’t use a voice chat feature without that same subscription…?

  Like, as a splatoon player who played and grind-ed rank without actual game servers while paying a subscription I absolutely was and still am mad about THAT, but given that thats the case, does it matter that you can’t use voice chat without a subscription…? Am I just totally missing something?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Those damned leftists!!!1!!⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Find me in the kitchen making food for the sex before marriage lounge 😌

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨I need to restart my morning jog⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  For some reason I initially thought this was a picture of him like getting onto a bus, like why are you flashing these random public transportation riders your midsection

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Rest in pepperoni⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Lol thanks ☺️ I needed some way to show scale and I figured me was a scale I know pretty well

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Rest in pepperoni⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  I saw you can overwinter them so now I really wanna try!! Last year I managed to get my strawberry through winter (and then promptly gave it transplant shock and overwatered, killing it lmao) so now I really wanna try!

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Come to Brazil⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Wow… and I thought things were bad in the US…

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Rest in pepperoni⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  That is very cute 🥹

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Mules.⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  These are low key super cute. I wanna find a furry with a fawn fursona to send these to lol

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Would it be offensive for me to wear bonnets as a white person?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  I get the impression the threadiverse is a very white space and to me, white people’s opinion on what feels appropriative seems unlikely to have as much perspective as you might want if the question matters to you. If there are folks you’re close with who it’d make sense to ask and are black, they might be a better crowd to ask. Or even a different part of the internet.

  I think in general when you’re wondering how people feel about something you need to talk to the affected people. Thats easiest when you have relationships where you know thats welcome, or if you go to a space where it is actively invited.

  Maybe the folks answering are giving good answers rooted in perspective though- as some random white guy I wouldn’t know. Being that it’s a somewhat anonymous feeling version of social media you don’t have a great sense for who’s answering your post and what kind of perspective they’re speaking from 🤷🏻‍♂️

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨..ladies⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Image

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Could I theoretically grind up one of those pink salt lamps and use it to season my food?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Its his brows going “oh… Oh no…”

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Could I theoretically grind up one of those pink salt lamps and use it to season my food?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  :(

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨How to move a sofa⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  This makes me so happy 🥹

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Horrible bruise from being hit by a baseball⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  😬

  Don’t think I’d wanna play baseball after that either 😅

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨No one could have seen this coming⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  I agree that online stores don’t do it as well as in person ones (being committed to being in a specific place where you buy stuff I think makes people engage more intentionally and consider items in front of them), but I wish more people talked about how shitty seo is one of the ways online stores do this so I wanna take this opportunity to share that idea

  Instead of having to walk to the back corner of the store to get milk or Christmas decorations, you have to scroll past a million items that aren’t quite what you’re looking for but are closely related by keywords. And in this metaphor the store can be infinitely big.

  I hate shopping online 🥹

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Cant Stop 💭⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  I feel like part of queer culture is that you always fuck your friends lol. Maybe I just hang out with especially slutty queers 😅

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨2 sides of the same coin⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Lmao

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨It's their rear end clearance⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  If we have a butt that we’d like to make available for purchase how does one go about having it placed on display?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨What's the difference between ignorance and stupidity?⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Cognitive impairments and differing cognitive ability are very much real things 😅 people can have an inability to learn, and/or an unwillingness to learn, but there very much are people who have the former and not the latter

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Badge of Honor⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Thank you, I appreciate it 😌

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Gamer Logic 😡⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Everything about that thread makes me sad :(

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Beans⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  For all the cursed beans images that have been posted this is the only one that is very sincerely upsetting to me, well done.

  Maybe one of the most viscerally disgusting things my eyes have ever seen…

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Gamer Logic 😡⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Thank you so much, I always heard about it and saw it referenced in discussion but didn’t actually know what the hell happened or what it actually was, I’ll have to sit down and give this a watch!

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Gamer Logic 😡⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Seeing people have sincere discussion on important and contentious topics makes me really happy. I’m curious to see how yalls discussion goes ☺️