ThirdConsul
@ThirdConsul@lemmy.ml
- Comment on Anon asks out a friend 9 hours ago:
Are we reading the same post? I don’t see wounded victim, I see OP saying no (for any reason), then see a hypocrite throwing a tantrum, and the OP being hurt by the hypocrisy and the tantrum?
And you calling him an incel for that? Was he supposed to bend over and suddenly get interested because that’s what she wants?
In your head how OP should behave here to not be an “incel”?
- Comment on Anon asks out a friend 1 day ago:
A gay man looking at another man will instantly feel attraction if he’s his type
You’re confusing lust with attraction.
- Comment on Anon asks out a friend 1 day ago:
Care to expand why? I’m genuinely curious.
- Comment on Just one…more..update 3 weeks ago:
I’m honestly curious what is Stardew competition, as I had fun playing SV?
- Comment on Just one…more..update 3 weeks ago:
I just hope for better quests in LNF. The ones in NMS are just… Boring.
Maybe it’s because they are procedurally generated from like a template of 10.
- Comment on [deleted] 4 weeks ago:
Interesting fact: in… 2010-ish a Vatican historian priest released a book where he explained that Jesus was a jokester. A lot of his sermons in the Bible were haha funny for the people at the time.
Do you know what we call a dude traveling from city to city with an entourage making people laugh? :)
A comedian.
- Comment on THIS is always the correct response 5 weeks ago:
Disclaimer: Am not an USian but European.
shs.cairn.info/revue-francaise-de-sociologie-1-20…
This is French journal about fear in women and how it affects their mobility. Whenever someone says
the risk of a fragile, shallow, unhinged, emotionally unstable man going berserk and MURDERING her.
it pops in my mind. The data they gathered suggests that women fear of violence is unrelated to actual rates of said violence happening, but is correlated to past smaller transgressions (“anticipated violence”). Long story short, if you were ever catcalled, or given a [clumsy] compliment, you’re likely to imagine (“anticipate”) out-of-proportion violence in multiple contexts.
The actual crime rate and crime gender proportion (in the US) - counciloncj.org/womens-justice-by-the-numbers/ - violence victims rate is 60-70% down since 1984 and since 2009 men and women are as likely to be the victim [before that men were most likely]; and the number of women perpetrators grown up. Oh, and the homicide rate by spouse is also closing the gap (although some studies suggest that the increase in women killing their husbands should be attributed to them not being dismissed as potential perpetrators by the police force)
I’m not dismissing your feelings OP, and your strategy seems very prudent, but I want to add to this discussion that it’s much much safer than you or the social media will try to paint, despite the fear you feel.
And that you’re not more likely to be a victim of a violent crime than a man (counciloncj.org/womens-justice-by-the-numbers/).
- Comment on Can any scientists confirm this important fact? 1 month ago:
catsonbroadwayhospital.com/life-feral-cat-colony/….
Wild cats sometimes form colonies. Those structures do have matriarchs. There is dominance in the groups.
- Comment on [deleted] 1 month ago:
Yeah… No
I’m not sure what you disagree with? Me blocking the thread to not see it on my page as per what previous commenter suggest? Or that I should’ve participated without reading the rules like you did?
I’m also not sure why are you calling people whiny dweebs or whom.
- Comment on [deleted] 1 month ago:
Just block the community or ask to be banned
Yup, that’s what I did. It leaves… bad taste in my mouth when it goes to my main page, the topic is interesting, I go to read it, and then I see someone silencing the participants with a very smug “You’re not a woman, so please kindly fuck off from here, flowers and smiles”.
- Comment on Too bad we can't have good public transportation 1 month ago:
- Comment on Get out of my head 1 month ago:
Are you guys having dementia or something? It’s fork on a pink background. If your brain needed time to process it, gos there’s something wrong with it.
- Comment on Makes sense to me 1 month ago:
imagine they controlled
I’ve read the study. They didn’t. N=183, all anonymous. In the study they played Halo 3, recorded voice over and measured the reactions (if any), and then correlated the few reactions they got with skill level.
Nothing is know about participants. The gamers gender was determined based on institute of my ass, out of 183 games there were no responses in almost half, and in the Introduction they admit what they’ll manipulate their result to prove.
Oh, and the data collected contains also female negative responses, they were removed from further processing because women good men bad.
Interestingly the female-negative raw data (examples picked by study authors in appendix 2)
“Yeah, stop stealing my kills, you little piece of shit.”
“Shut up, you removed. She’s a removed though.”
“Should’ve made me a sandwich, removed.
Vs male-negative:
“Freaking removed.”
“I liked your lag trick, jackass.”
“You suck dick.”
Could be my bias, but male-negative from data set sounds significantly less sexists than female-negative. Female negative more often is aggression related to gender, male negative is less personal.
- Comment on Stanford Professor: The idea that Stanford University owes its graduate students a "living wage" is preposterous 1 month ago:
There’s a vast difference between trajectory of life of someone who has graduated 2 years CC vs Stanford
- Comment on Public transit in Chengdu, China versus Toronto, Canada 1 month ago:
I mean…
www.walkfree.org/…/united-states/
www.walkfree.org/global-slavery-index/…/china/
3.3 slaves per thousand people vs 4.0 per thousand seems very similar to me.
- Comment on Public transit in Chengdu, China versus Toronto, Canada 1 month ago:
street cars
Is at least one of them called Desire?
- Comment on Public transit in Chengdu, China versus Toronto, Canada 1 month ago:
If you’re USian - you have vastly more domestic slaves (I think you call them prisoners in for-profit prisons) than Uyghur population. Maybe you should do something about it.
If you’re not USian, no rebuttal.
- Comment on What sort of grill needs a firmware update lol 2 months ago:
Gets up to 700 degs
That’s a furnace. Aluminium melts at 700 degrees. Gold at 1000.
- Comment on What sort of grill needs a firmware update lol 2 months ago:
I’m an IT guy, if my printer made a noise I don’t recognise I’d shoot it.
- Comment on Anon likes a thing 2 months ago:
NetHack, ADoM, Angband, Brogue
One of those things is not like the others.
Also you’re missing Elona, game where your wizard can dual wield rifles while riding on an abomination with the head of your pet cat, body of a tyrannosaurs rex and 8 claymore wielding human arms taken from your gene slaves. Or get rich while playing a piano and finish the game by using that sweet sweet moneh hiring adventures and sending them to die exploring the BBEG lair.
- Comment on Does vibe coding sort of work at all? 2 months ago:
Please don’t upvote this person, I think their a bot. The libs use AWS SDK internally and claim 90% performance boost, and the person explains it as faster development.
- Comment on Does vibe coding sort of work at all? 2 months ago:
The point is not a few less milliseconds, it’s many hours of reduced development for people implementing DynamoDB
So you’re comparing claimed performance (execution) gains to development time? Yeah, that makes sense.
I think you’re a bot.
- Comment on Does vibe coding sort of work at all? 2 months ago:
Thank you.
How did you check the performance though for the ORM? You claim it’s faster that AWS SDK, which literally impossible, as you are using AWS SDK to power it.
- Comment on Does vibe coding sort of work at all? 2 months ago:
Out of curiosity, what do they do and did you use agentic approach or prompt and then copy?
- Comment on Sony faces another class-action lawsuit over PlayStation Store prices and monopolistic practices 2 months ago:
Agreed but you can play only offline without missing on much
That’s such a bad take. Game companies are not allowed to have multiplayer that bypasses psn network.
The Sony and Nintendo have dominant positions in the game market for their consoles. The wallet garden must be breached for the consumer - why do you cate about company profits🙃
- Comment on AGI achieved 🤖 2 months ago:
Sorry, that was Claude 3.7, not ChatGPT 4o
- Comment on AGI achieved 🤖 2 months ago:
If you take s look at 4o leaked instruction (prompt that is “injected” at the begining of the chat), that model is clearly ordered HOW to solve this kind of problem lol
- Comment on Why are American cops allowed to be morbidly obese? 3 months ago:
Your though process is wrong. You need to backpedal it. One bad apple doesn’t mean we should burn the orchard. And you can perverse anything good into an abomination.
eat the rich
How you want to do that without unions? Dude, saying out loud
[I wonder] if any union is worth it if that’s the risk of what they could become.
Is not helping anyone.
Take an L and do better.
- Comment on Why are American cops allowed to be morbidly obese? 3 months ago:
With that mindset, why bother living or leaving the bed? Imagine the worst day you could have, why risk it?
- Comment on [deleted] 3 months ago:
And I generally don’t need 5-in-1 shower products
Well, technically a bar of soap is all-in-one product. You can even wash clothes with it.
But I get your point, I see overpriced male-targetted 3-in-1 soap gels everywhere.