kofe

@kofe@lemmy.world

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Age check⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  She could not give full consent given the power imbalance. She does regret her role. Please consider looking into how she has reframed her experience since the #metoo movement.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Age check⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  A quick Google search is telling me she now considers it a gross abuse of power. The #metoo movement helped her reframe her understanding of consent.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Metal genres⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  I can’t do the pig squeal sounding screams, but a good heavy vocalist can add so much to the range of emotion. It was an acquired taste for me, though. I had friends trying to show me BTBAM thinking I’d appreciate the complexity, but it took ages for me to really hear everything through the wall of sound. Looking up lyrics helped massively, along with finding bands that blend the heavy and clean vocals so there were spots I could sing along with. I’d love to learn to scream properly so I could belt out some gutturals

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Evolution: 🖕⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  My dreams of kick boxing like a kangaroo may finally come truee

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Happens EVERY time⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  The safety precautions I’ve put in place to save my hair ties are what I’d expect if I had a toddler

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Guys on dating sites be like:⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  I’M WORKING WITH SOME VERY UNSTABLE HERRRRBSSS

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨:-)⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Oxytocin is a big one, but I’m struggling to remember the others. I remember that one cuz of a psych class where the professor brought it up as an event that mothers would associate as having some of the highest levels of it. Its considered the bonding hormone, so makes sense we’d bond with our babies so drastically to keep us motivated to care for them after they ripped our lower body apart lol

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Best selling toy⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Perhaps a duck wearing cat ears

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Make it stop⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  I think thats somewhat demonstrated, but its possible the power corrupts and brings those traits out, too

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨And sir cumference, the sphere⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Carrying a coconut?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨This is unfair!⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  This. Is. Democracy. Manifest!

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨nets⁩ ⁨⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  I worked at a public disposal area for a little while and can attest that at least my flyover state/zipcode does separate and sanitize plastic. Cardboard was the only thing that couldn’t have touched oil (including pizza). We only accepted plastics #1 and #2, though, and part of my job included climbing into the dumpster and sorting through. I’d miss it if workers rights weren’t simultaneously such shot here

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨The IT Crowd: Jen has been transported⁩ ⁨⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Theoretically, one could be speaking in Italy, but that’s only if Italy exists

  … I’ll see myself out

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨US Department of Labor to cease and desist all investigative and enforcement activity under rescinded Executive Order 11246⁩ ⁨⁨7⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  I’m ok with discriminating against billionaires to the extent that they shouldn’t exist. I don’t believe there should be such disproportionate power. There is a general trend of white men having the most, but it’s not exclusive. I don’t therefore believe white men all disproportionately have more power and discriminate against them. Does that make sense?

  If not, please do explain how anything I’ve said is racist. I’m hoping this was just a misunderstanding and you’re not implying that calling out systemic racism is racist in itself. That would put us in quite the pickle lol

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Are dating apps a fraud since the beginning?⁩ ⁨⁨7⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  I met my last long term partner on a dating app, but these days it’s not a route I’d want to take. I met someone on discord more recently in a really wonderful community that allowed me to get to know him and make other friends with none of the same pressure

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨US Department of Labor to cease and desist all investigative and enforcement activity under rescinded Executive Order 11246⁩ ⁨⁨7⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Not all people have the same opportunity. To say all people are the same is to deny systemic reality. Lemme know when everyone has similar wealth or power to Trump, Musk, Zuckerberg, etc.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨US Department of Labor to cease and desist all investigative and enforcement activity under rescinded Executive Order 11246⁩ ⁨⁨7⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  The Nazi movement would not be competent at all without enough cogs in the machine

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Why do so many UK electrical sockets have an on/off switch next to them?⁩ ⁨⁨7⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Have you tried using your toes?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨JeSUS⁩ ⁨⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Depends on whom you’re asking, but lots of christians consider it a sin outside of marriage. Super healthy message to give young kids /s

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Too dumb to understand where the gas tank opening is⁩ ⁨⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  On some models yeah. I’ve had cars that didn’t

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Too dumb to understand where the gas tank opening is⁩ ⁨⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  I’m pretty sure I have some deficiencies, but I’m lucky I got to learn pretty young on a farm. I’m torn between wanting to advocate kids have access to like go kart tracks at school vs funding more public transit and walkable communities, as someone else said. Both would be dope tho

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Too dumb to understand where the gas tank opening is⁩ ⁨⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Welcome to life, where occasionally you deal with things you don’t want to. I do hope you never experience a similar situation, but if you do, I hope it is handled with compassion.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨If you are a young person you have no idea how bad everyone and everything smelled until at least the 1990s.⁩ ⁨⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  There’s a small city in the Kansas City, Missouri metro (Raytown) that lobbied to keep it legal in restaurants and bars. I just looked it up, and apparently it’s fine to smoke weed as of 2023, too

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Cups⁩ ⁨⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Or Yamaha Or Hitachi

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Git good, son⁩ ⁨⁨10⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  If the follow up to you saying you’re done is them demanding to keep going, that is coercive and fucked up. I wouldn’t suggest lying in response unless you never plan to see them again, though, or if you feel safe and plan to address it later. It’s just as fucked up to keep up with the lie afterwards as it is to be coercive, imo. Both play coercive, indirect ways of refusing respect, and the tit-for-tat dynamic risks setting up a breeding grounds of resentment for at least the person maintaining a lie. It also denies the coercive person the opportunity for growth.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Drink it, I dare ya⁩ ⁨⁨10⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  The carton stuff literally tasted like sweat the one time I tried

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨No excuse⁩ ⁨⁨10⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Lmfao I had to start using the covers for litter boxes since one of mine does this. I feel bad, like I know it’s not great for them to feel confined but…I am not letting that continue

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Magic Mineral⁩ ⁨⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Such as increased rates of infertility iirc

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Why did Joker 2 lose so much money? And how on earth did it cost so much in the first place?⁩ ⁨⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  I thought that was just me being ADHD lol. I watched from home and paused a few times to do other stuff. I didn’t think it was great, but not the worst. I also went in looking forward to the musical numbers that somehow people didn’t know about. Overall maybe 6.5/10? (This is probably the first time I’ve graded a film tbh)

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Clipped it blud⁩ ⁨⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  More like asking “you think I’m charismatic?”