You don’t love your friends?
The only issue I’ve had in my open marriage
Submitted 10 hours ago by imnotvector@lemmy.world to [deleted]
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Varesti@lemmy.zip 7 hours ago
manuallybreathing@lemmy.ml 6 hours ago
People dont know how to love each other anymore, you say you love someone and they assume you want to be locked alone in a room with them for the rest of your lives
gray@lemmy.ml 4 hours ago
This! I can love my hookup for a couple of hours and then love “the witcher 3 free remaster” the next day. I hate that “I love you” carry so many additional meanings.
gegil@sopuli.xyz 7 hours ago
You guys have friends?
tetris11@feddit.uk 5 hours ago
I had a friend who had friends. They were my friends, until I lost that friend, and went back to zero again
imnotvector@lemmy.world 7 hours ago
Sure do. Wouldn’t leave my wife for them though…
UltraBlack@lemmy.world 6 hours ago
Fwb is such a stupid concept
It’s just prostitution but different
DupaCycki@lemmy.world 6 hours ago
It has nothing to do with prostitution. There’s no money involved, and nobody gains anything material.
I believe the idea is to just hook up, but with people you know and like, instead of strangers. Safer, probably cheaper, and maybe even beneficial outside of the obvious.
manuallybreathing@lemmy.ml 5 hours ago
They call it sex work, because it’s work. Please don’t say prostitution anymore :)
UltraBlack@lemmy.world 6 hours ago
Prostitution has nothing to do with an exchange of goods, does it?
Imo recreational sex in general is prostitution.
ArmoredThirteen@lemmy.zip 6 hours ago
Somebody’s never had a fwb
manuallybreathing@lemmy.ml 6 hours ago
wh*rephobia from lemmy[dot]world, shocker
Anarki_@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 hours ago
whore*
UltraBlack@lemmy.world 5 hours ago
The instance has nothing to do with anything, at least in my case.
To me it’s just an ethical thing. Hookups to me seem like a sad and worthless concept. Might as well masturbate instead. No fun that lasts, no connection that makes it special at all. Sex just loses all its meaning
sundray@lemmus.org 8 hours ago
lightnsfw@reddthat.com 21 minutes ago
You can love someone and not be romantically bound up with them. Relationships can be whatever you want them to be as long as both sides can come to an agreement. I love my FWB doesn’t mean I’m trying to tie her down (at least not emotionally).