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The only issue I’ve had in my open marriage

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Submitted ⁨⁨10⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago⁩ by ⁨imnotvector@lemmy.world⁩ to ⁨[deleted]⁩

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  • lightnsfw@reddthat.com ⁨21⁩ ⁨minutes⁩ ago

    You can love someone and not be romantically bound up with them. Relationships can be whatever you want them to be as long as both sides can come to an agreement. I love my FWB doesn’t mean I’m trying to tie her down (at least not emotionally).

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  • Varesti@lemmy.zip ⁨7⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    You don’t love your friends?

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    • manuallybreathing@lemmy.ml ⁨6⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      People dont know how to love each other anymore, you say you love someone and they assume you want to be locked alone in a room with them for the rest of your lives

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      • gray@lemmy.ml ⁨4⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        This! I can love my hookup for a couple of hours and then love “the witcher 3 free remaster” the next day. I hate that “I love you” carry so many additional meanings.

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    • gegil@sopuli.xyz ⁨7⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      You guys have friends?

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      • tetris11@feddit.uk ⁨5⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        I had a friend who had friends. They were my friends, until I lost that friend, and went back to zero again

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    • imnotvector@lemmy.world ⁨7⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      Sure do. Wouldn’t leave my wife for them though…

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  • UltraBlack@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Fwb is such a stupid concept

    It’s just prostitution but different

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    • DupaCycki@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      It has nothing to do with prostitution. There’s no money involved, and nobody gains anything material.

      I believe the idea is to just hook up, but with people you know and like, instead of strangers. Safer, probably cheaper, and maybe even beneficial outside of the obvious.

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      • manuallybreathing@lemmy.ml ⁨5⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        They call it sex work, because it’s work. Please don’t say prostitution anymore :)

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      • UltraBlack@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        Prostitution has nothing to do with an exchange of goods, does it?

        Imo recreational sex in general is prostitution.

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    • ArmoredThirteen@lemmy.zip ⁨6⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      Somebody’s never had a fwb

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    • manuallybreathing@lemmy.ml ⁨6⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      wh*rephobia from lemmy[dot]world, shocker

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      • Anarki_@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        whore*

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      • UltraBlack@lemmy.world ⁨5⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        The instance has nothing to do with anything, at least in my case.

        To me it’s just an ethical thing. Hookups to me seem like a sad and worthless concept. Might as well masturbate instead. No fun that lasts, no connection that makes it special at all. Sex just loses all its meaning

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  • sundray@lemmus.org ⁨8⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    🎵 Love’ll get you like a case of anthrax…

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