Anyone get this?

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• Samuelbanks@thelemmy.club ⁨7⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  I put a smile on people’s faces by helping them pay off their bills or blessing them with a couple of bucks to cover the week’s groceries. Message me saying “NEED HELP”’ to get yours

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• _lilith@lemmy.world ⁨18⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  Trust your gut

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• ivan@piefed.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  Had a situation twice where one particular friend would antagonize other one (different people in both cases), and after some time rest of us would have that “oh!” moment, with that second friend no longer being a friend now.

  As for myself - became good friends for almost 10 years now with a person who’s first impression to me was not good to say the least.

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• lightnsfw@reddthat.com ⁨23⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  All the time.

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• SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨22⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  I don’t think there’s a singular bad vibe detector though. And even within a narrow type, there’s still multihlevels of threat perception, often paired with expectations vs one’s ability to handle it.

  Like, some people have experienced trauma or other bad shit with certain things and get a bad vibe from some stuff, but not other stuff or situations.

  And also imagine a manipulative person in a group of, let’s say, ten people. Let’s call them person M (for manipulator). Then there’s person A and person B. Person A sees person M doing shitty stuff, but person A is way smarter than person M and knows they, person A, is gonna shut it down soon. And all of that just fits regular, casual conversation for person A, that isn’t even “shitty”, it’s just an attempt for whatever.

  But, person B sitting in the corner only has mild experience with person M’s actions and classifies it as a “bad vibe” and doesn’t know how to handle it very well, and so makes a mental note to poop in person M’s food later.

  Person A may be a 900 year old sith CEO and this just isn’t an issue, whereas person B may be a 6 month old drooling wet nosed monkey. Both can notice, but they perceive and handle the situations VERY differently.

  🌞 🌈 vibes~ 🌈 🎉

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  • tlekiteki@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨19⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Dude. There are non-shitty ways to be subtle. But being shitty is being shitty. If person A was actually cool, they wouldnt tolerate bullying person B. But that is just my take.

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• Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org ⁨22⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  Nah, i was born without the vibe detector. So I’m probably the one giving away bad vibes.

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• ArchsageRamases@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  Me with most people

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• OctopusNemeses@lemmy.world ⁨17⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  What are the vibes though?

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• homes@piefed.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  Yes, although occasionally, it’s me

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