Ignoring the obvious conversation about downs, a story:
A friend of mine when we were roughly 20ish had a pregnant dog, and needed to go out of town. Asked me to watch the dog in case she had the puppies. I agreed. She then became very serious about complications in labor, and I told her not to worry, I had the vet’s number, and dog’s generally have an easier time of it than people. She kept going on about making sure she would be alright, and after listening to her for several minutes, it became clear she did not understand what would be happening, and was concerned there was a chance one of the babies would get stuck in the dog’s butt. Because she genuinely thought sometimes babies can come out the butt if they get lost in there.
panda_abyss@lemmy.ca 1 week ago
Can we stop pretending that downs people are all drooling smiley faces that can’t think at all?
There is a massive spectrum of capabilities and genetic complexities associated with it.
My sister has Downs and she was incredibly bright until she had a stroke as a child. There are Downs people who live mostly normal lives.
And also, yes, I’ve had some awesome times with my sister, and the look of joy on her face when she plays sports is one of the purest things on Earth. But there was also a lot of crying and yelling and fighting in my life caring for her. The highs are definitely high, and the lows are low.
It is a disability, but I hate how anything stupid is represented by Downs features.
The image/caption adds absolutely nothing to the top text.
teslekova@sh.itjust.works 1 week ago
Huh. I did not know that Downs isn’t necessarily associated with an intellectual deficit. That is useful information, thanks mate. I can see how it’d be damn frustrating seeing that as a default belief in society.
panda_abyss@lemmy.ca 6 days ago
It usually is, but it’s a wide spectrum
Return_of_Chippy@lemmy.world 1 week ago
Nobody is pretending that.
panda_abyss@lemmy.ca 1 week ago
I’m overly sensitive here for sure, but Downs jokes are a kind of red line for me. It’s a losing battle, so I don’t speak up often when I see them.
The top part is funny without the downs joke, so I point this example out as just needless.
Btw I didn’t downvote you, don’t really feel like your comment is downvoted worthy.
People do pretend that downs people are eternally happy or something though. You can see it on Reddit (spits) threads whenever Downs comes up.