How can i become a best friend for someone ?

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• Blizzard@lemmy.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

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  • Meho_Nohome@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    Why is that guy not wearing shoes?

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    • Schmeckinger@feddit.de ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      If you had 13 toes your feet would be hot too.

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  • Albin7326@suppo.fi ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    What you mean and why 12 peoples upvoted it ? Any secret meaning that match with my question ?

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    • figaro@lemdro.id ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      It is just funny. Don’t kiss strangers from behind… or at all probably. Unless there is consent. Then have at it.

      But mostly no, don’t kiss strangers.

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    • radix@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      Just absurd humor. Don’t mind it, memes in a secondary language are difficult.

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• Varyk@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  Do you have them locked in a trunk somewhere?

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  • sbv@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    Step 1: let them out

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    • Albin7326@suppo.fi ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      I didn’t locked anybody in any trunk. But i need to know what is friendship and how that feeling begins.

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  • Albin7326@suppo.fi ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    No. It isn’t like that.

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    • Varyk@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      Okay. What is it like?

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• AFKBRBChocolate@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  There’s no one answer that’s true for everyone. It’s like asking how you can be the perfect spouse for someone: it depends on what the person is looking for.

  But there are some norms and generalities. Some attributes that most people want from a friend are:

  • They can trust you because you keep their confidence, you don’t make fun of them when they make mistakes, and are otherwise sensitive to their feelings.
  • You act with their best interests, at least sometimes even over your own.
  • You’re candid with them, but not hurtful.
  • You’re interested in some of the same things
  • You enjoy each other’s company

  Note that the are exceptions to all of these. Some people want to hang out with someone they feel superior to. Some people gravitate to people who reinforce their own inferiorities. Etc.

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  • Albin7326@suppo.fi ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    I met many peoples in my life and triend to become friend. But i failed 😅. But now in this just few days i feel like i find something like a friend. He heals me and taking away my loneliness and sadness away from me. He spends time for me also he never talks anything wrong or never making fun of my drawbacks. I need to be a good friend for him. Thats why am asking.

    And you’re right everyone have different ways to be a good friend. And thanks for sharing 😊

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    • Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      Just think of all the things that they do to make you happy, and be sure to do the same for them!

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    • AFKBRBChocolate@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      I guess my advice is you’re wanting to be a friend to someone in particular is to really listen to them. When they tell you about something going on in their life, try to imagine what is like for them - what it would be like for you. Feed that back to them (“Wow, I’d be nervous if that was me, were you nervous?” and that kind of thing). Be genuinely interested in what’s going on with them.

      I’m glad you found someone who seems to care about you. Good luck.

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    • Alchemy@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      You sound like a good, genuine person. That’s a great trait to have in a friend. One thing friends often share is a common interest in activities, be it food, cooking, hunting for mushrooms, going to museums, anything that you enjoy.

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• PseudoSpock@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  It happens naturally or not at all.

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• sin_free_for_00_days@sopuli.xyz ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  It’s hard and may not happen. As Forrest Gump said:

  Bubba was my best good friend. And even I know that ain’t something you can find just around the corner.

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  • Albin7326@suppo.fi ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

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    • sin_free_for_00_days@sopuli.xyz ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      Just life. I’m in my 50s. People change, move, fade in and out of my life. Over the years I’ve had many acquaintances, a handful of good friends, and one best friend. Now my best friend I’ve been friends with for decades. We may only email/text/call every couple weeks/months, and at this point we don’t meet up but once or twice every year or two. When we do, it’s like no time has passed. The same stupid jokes, the same taste in entertainment, similar philosophical discussions, etc. The bond was forged through experiences we had growing up together. I can’t see developing another friend like that again because I lack the naivety, energy, and freedom (really just youth) that I once had.

      I said it may not happen, because it’s a commitment. Not a conscious one. It’s, as I said before, life. Situations come up, life changes, close friends move away physically or emotionally. They may come back into your life, they may not. But having a “best” friend is something I think I took for granted a long time before noticing that a lot of people’s “best” friend is often talked about in past tense.

      On the other hand, I have some friends who have a best group of friends. That is to say, a handful of people who have stuck together for decades and really work as a best friendship group. I’ve always been a little envious of that.

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• mateomaui@reddthat.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  get a dog

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  • Albin7326@suppo.fi ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    I will get one when am away from my parents. Bcz they dont like pets 😬

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  • deven@kerala.party ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    Do pets have freedom?

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    • mateomaui@reddthat.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      Do you have a non-wearisome point that doesn’t completely ignore the colloquial reputation of “man’s best friend” and the lighthearted intention of my reply?

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• Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  This is the most wholesome thing I’ve read today, and I’m more realizing how much I needed it. Thank you!

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  • Albin7326@suppo.fi ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    Wow… my question is just helping others too…

    Happy to hear 🥰

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• Kolanaki@yiffit.net ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  Best friends don’t bail each other out of prison.

  Best friends get arrested together.

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• Synthead@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  You’dbe surprised how much more excellent your friendships become from being patient, attentive, and engaged listener. Let them say exactly what they mean to say with no interruptions. Don’t make suggestions or opinions. Let them be heard, and occasionally comment on what they’re saying so that they know you’re listening.

  I find this to be kind of a rare thing in a lot of people. Most folks just wait for you to finish so that they can say what they want to say. Simply listening is a great way to get to know someone better and show that you care.

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  • Albin7326@suppo.fi ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    I think this will work exactly for me. Bcz my friend have alot to talk with me

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• NaibofTabr@infosec.pub ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  Be the friend that they need, and don’t try to make them into the friend that you want.

  But also, be careful… don’t get used by someone who doesn’t actually care about you.

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  • Albin7326@suppo.fi ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    Ok… i will keep in mind that. In my life i always ignored many because they are not right for me. 😅

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• margina1Shit@jlai.lu ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

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  • Albin7326@suppo.fi ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

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    • figaro@lemdro.id ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      A mean person

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• GrammatonCleric@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  Can’t force it. Has to happen randomly on its own through circumstance.

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