AFKBRBChocolate
@AFKBRBChocolate@lemmy.world
Yet another refugee who washed up on the shore after the great Reddit disaster of 2023
- Comment on sorry i never replied 6 hours ago:
I retired in January, and I’m having this issue to a point it feels insane. The other night I got undressed for bed and was dumbfounded when I saw that the hamper I was tossing my clothes into was otherwise empty. My brain just could not accept that I was at the end of the same day that featured doing laundry earlier. That had to be at least the day before. But I’ve had other things that were the opposite: didn’t I just run the dishwasher? No, that was a week ago.
I have no time cues. Trash day is about the only think that happens on a regular schedule. Some days I’m busy and they go quicker. Some days are mostly reading or whatever, and they go on forever. After 40 years of getting up and going to work, with certain things happening certain days, it feels pretty surreal.
- Comment on are there bots that downvote every comment users have? 1 week ago:
I remember a long time ago noticing, while sorting by new, that posts in some communities had downvotes within seconds of being posted, so yes I think there are bots.
- Comment on High point of the meeting surely? 2 weeks ago:
- Comment on [deleted] 2 weeks ago:
Normally: awfully darned funny. When sleep deprived: hardly funny at all.
- Comment on My ravioli bowl won't unstick. Took about an hour of prying, and still I couldn't unstick the plate. 3 weeks ago:
By “ravioli bowl,” do you mean it currently has ravioli in it? If so, put it in the microwave for increments of like 30 seconds.
- Comment on Velvet Spider 3 weeks ago:
I don’t think that changes anything.
- Comment on Velvet Spider 3 weeks ago:
I’m not at all arachnophobic - I’ll often pick spiders up with my hand to put them outside - but I don’t think I could let this one crawl on me without crying.
- Comment on POV: You're too shy to tell the medical staff that you just woke up during surgery. 4 weeks ago:
My wife had a procedure under general - one where they had her legs pulled away back after she was out. She woke up during it to the point where she could hear them talking, but she couldn’t say anything. She told the doctor at the follow-up that she heard them talking and he said lots of people think that, but it’s just hallucinations from the drugs. She said, “One of the things you talked about was your kid’s soccer game,” and he got an “Oh shit” expression and moved the conversation to something else.
Why did he do that, you might ask? Because another thing they did was make fun of my wife in the position she was in. Extremely unprofessional, and she could have made a stink about it, but she just indirectly let him know she heard it.
- Comment on How do you answer the question "What's new with you?" when nothing happens in your life? 4 weeks ago:
It’s not an absolute rule, but it’s true in the vast majority of cases. The coloring is on the X chromosome, and males usually have only one, but some males with have an extra X chromosome (XXY) and those can be calico. It’s rare.
- Comment on Is there a good way to buy chrome lettering in the same font as the brand's original lettering on the back of the car? 5 weeks ago:
No expert, but it seems unlikely. My understanding is that big brands generally use custom fonts, so you’re unlikely to find generic lettering that matches. But maybe you can find something close enough?
- Comment on How did you get your job? 1 month ago:
No, a NASA and DOD contractor. Worked on some neat stuff over the years, including the electrical power system for the space station. I ended up managing the software engineering group, and really liked that - very smart people.
- Comment on How did you get your job? 1 month ago:
Old guy checking in. I was a computer science major, graduating in 1985. My goal at the time was to go into computer animation (note that Toy story, the first full length computer animated movie, wasn’t released until ten years later). But there was a big computer animated project that was canceled or tabled just before my last semester, so the market was flooded with out of work animators and I decided I’d better do something different. I was getting married, and I needed a job.
I had good grades, but I didn’t think there was much that made my resume stand out from my classmates, each of whom was making 100+ copies of theirs and applying to every software job they could find. So instead, I asked everyone I knew if they knew anyone who worked at a place that hired software people, and asked if they could get me a name of a hiring manager. I got seven or eight of those, and I sent each of them a letter with my resume, mentioning who pointed me their direction. Out of that I got three interviews and two job offers. My first job ended up being writing control software for the space shuttle main engines, and I stayed at the company almost 40 years. I just retired in January.
- Comment on The billionaires and politicians did it 1 month ago:
As I understand it, it’s the effect of a number of policy decisions intended in the surface to stabilize the economy. They stopped approving minimum wage hikes, they accepted a higher rate of unemployment due to factory automation, etc. Also, the difference between worker and executive compensation has grown tremendously. image
- Comment on The billionaires and politicians did it 1 month ago:
That’s why the right aligned with evangelicals all those years ago. Prior to that, Republicans were actually for abortion rights as a personal freedoms thing. But then they started with the family values stuff, casting Democrats as literally against God. “You need to vote for us because we’ll protect marriage, keep you safe from the sin of homosexuality, and most importantly will protect the babies from being murdered.” Once in office, they could pass all of the tax cuts for the wealthy and reduce corporate oversight, which was the actual goal.
- Comment on The billionaires and politicians did it 1 month ago:
- Comment on Having a baby? Use this one weird trick! 1 month ago:
Didn’t they just elect a fairly liberal president?
- Comment on What happens if I eat a box of paper clips before an MRI? 1 month ago:
They wouldn’t do the MRI because they’d be ripped through your body
- Comment on Grub out and about 2 months ago:
I’m no expert, but I think most (all?) grubs are a stage of beetle development. Beetle lays eggs, eggs hatch into grubs, sometimes they go through a couple larger grub stages, grub becomes pupa, pupa becomes beetle.
I think the ones like that become June bugs or similar.
- Comment on Grub out and about 2 months ago:
Some kind of scarab beetle, like a june bug?
- Comment on Is there a less stinky way to cook broccoli? 2 months ago:
Honestly, broccoli is wonderful microwaved. Put it in a covered dish with just a little water. For a couple servings, I do on high like 2.5 minutes. Easy to adjust the time to get it just the way you want it. You can’t get it crispy that way, but it’s basically like perfectly steamed.
- Comment on Can I still consider myself a “young woman” after I turn 24? I turn 24 in March (next month). 2 months ago:
Thanks! Even though we’re ten years apart, I think we’re together on the tail end of the Lemmy age bell curve. It’s nice to have company.
- Comment on Can I still consider myself a “young woman” after I turn 24? I turn 24 in March (next month). 2 months ago:
It’s all relative. I’m 62 - from my perspective you’ve only recently gone from being a girl to being a woman, so for sure a young woman. Of course in ten years I’ll be 72 and you’ll be 34, and I’d still call you a young woman.
- Comment on Giving the neighbors a laugh 2 months ago:
According to translate, the side of the van says “Home delivery service, we always come.”
Does that pun actually work in both English and German?
- Comment on eggs in japan 2 months ago:
The protective barrier is true, but you’re either making assumptions about the rest or you’ve been misinformed. There really aren’t major issues in any of the developed countries today, but the washing and refrigeration is still the safest with the longest shelf life. It isn’t the condition the chickens are kept in - there are countries where it’s much, much worse than in the US - it’s just that chickens very easily carry salmonella.
Many years ago, more countries washed, but there were some escapes, especially one from Australia with the eggs exported to the UK, and it got a bad name, so some countries dropped it, but the US figured out how to make it work consistently. Most countries require chickens to be vaccinated, but the US hasn’t needed to because of the washing and refrigeration.
Lots of good info online. Here’s a USDA article on it, and here’s a higher level NPR piece.
- Comment on eggs in japan 2 months ago:
It’s just two different strategies for avoiding salmonella. The US method has worked very well for a very long time. So much so that other countries did adopt it, at least for a time, but it requires an infrastructure that can keep the eggs refrigerated through from processing to consumer, which isn’t trivial.
- Comment on The Fantastic Four: First Steps (dir Matt Shakman) [2025] 2 months ago:
I always liked the F4, but they’ve yet to make a good move out of them.
- Comment on What's the deal with Signal? 2 months ago:
Yep, just the default messaging app on their phone.
- Comment on What's the deal with Signal? 2 months ago:
The problem is that most people don’t want multiple text apps, they just want one. I had gotten a number of people using signal, and it was secure when we talked, but when signal dropped SMS, almost every one of them stopped using it, so then none of their conversations were secure.
- Comment on Google's AI is using past tense to describe a sporting event that takes place in 3 days. And it knows who won too. 2 months ago:
I always try to explain to people that the key is the last two letters: language model. An LLM is a model of what a conversation should look like. Ask it a question and it’s intended to give you a response that looks like the right kind of thing. So if you ask it for a mathematical proof, it will give you one, but unless the thing you’re asking has the same proof written the same way in lots of places online, what it gives you won’t be correct, and probably won’t actually make sense mathematically, but it will look like the right kind of thing.
So likewise, if you ask it for relationship advice, it’s going to give you something that looks legit, but you’re an idiot if you get your relationship advice from an LLM.
- Comment on how normal is it to snore at 13/14 years old? 3 months ago:
It’s often a sign that the person is overweight.
