Controlling other peoples lives is cringe.
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Submitted 1 month ago by itiswhatitis@lemmy.world to [deleted]
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UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 1 month ago
amon@lemmy.world 1 month ago
It’s a sign that someone needs to find a new hobby
AshMan85@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Should have refused to let others decide your life for you.
fmstrat@lemmy.nowsci.com 1 month ago
From the other comment,it sounds like it’s working out, just not for the Dad.
Signtist@lemm.ee 1 month ago
I used to think it was really creepy and archaic, but an Indian friend of mine says that it was a real load off of her shoulders to just leave it up to her parents to put the work in, and she says she’s happy with the man they found for her. Still wouldn’t be for me, but I at least now see it as an acceptable option for people who want it. I doubt it’s a fun topic of discussion when the kid doesn’t want it but the parents do, but that’s not unlike already existing contested topics like career choice and grandkids.
callouscomic@lemm.ee 1 month ago
So kind of lazyness/complacency regarding obligations pressured by others. They’re basically describing solutions to a problem they shouldn’t have in the first place. Still seems shitty.
RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 1 month ago
So a tolerable roommate you have to have sex with occasionally?
BleatingZombie@lemmy.world 1 month ago
It’s not always up to them, pal
AshMan85@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Of course it is, that is part of becoming an adult, you get to say “no” to other people
sentient_loom@sh.itjust.works 1 month ago
How exactly did your dad “arrange” your marriage? Sounds illegal.
itiswhatitis@lemmy.world 1 month ago
[deleted]Landless2029@lemmy.world 1 month ago
This sounds less like a classical arranged marriage and more like parents introducing their kids to each other.
tgxn@lemmy.tgxn.net 1 month ago
It’s still fairly common in many different cultures and parts of the world to have an arranged marriage. en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Arranged_marriage
lath@lemmy.world 1 month ago
When the product is different than advertised.
itiswhatitis@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Zwiebel@feddit.org 1 month ago
Do you get along with him tho? :) If your parents complain to much just tell them you move abroad if they don’t stop 😆