Anon shares a high school memory
Submitted 11 months ago by Early_To_Risa@sh.itjust.works to greentext@sh.itjust.works
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bionicjoey@lemmy.ca 11 months ago
archonet@lemy.lol 11 months ago
perhaps, but he’s right that more likely than not it wouldn’t have ended well. Dating is pain and the idea of romance is always nicer in your head.
Ajen@sh.itjust.works 11 months ago
Personal growth usually involves pain, but that’s not a good reason to avoid it. Sounds like OP missed out.
AgentOrangesicle@lemmy.world 11 months ago
Yeah, those grapes probably have herpes anyway.
HollowNaught@lemmy.world 11 months ago
This looks likes somebody in denial, rationalising their feelings
spujb@lemmy.cafe 11 months ago
anon was almost fine till the slut shaming bit. it’s totally valid to have boundaries around smoking and alcohol, especially underage where those are significantly notable red flags.
even rationalizing one’s feelings is a pretty healthy thing to do. far better to acknowledge that the pretty girl had flaws than to pedastal her and pine after an idealized version of her for the rest of his life because that’s just a recipe for depression and self hate.
that said, her sexual history was none of anon’s business, and the fact that he doesn’t even seem sure about it while being willing to judge her character over it speaks volumes.
i hope anon is doing alright and has learned confidence in himself. also hope his relationship with women’s sexuality can improve cuz yikes.
13esq@lemmy.world 11 months ago
Oh no, I could’ve gotten laid! 😭
Estiar@sh.itjust.works 11 months ago
If you want to have a romantic relationship with someone, you probably want to know if they cheated on somebody before you go for it. Otherwise you’ll probably get burned just like they burned others. Maybe Anon wants a loyal girlfriend