Some just find the idea of their partner having had a lot of other partners unappealing. I get it, it’s a really common thing. I’m sure some of it is sexism but having a ton of previous partners isn’t very appealing to a lot of women either. Plenty of jokes about someone having so many diseases that their dick falls off lol
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13esq@lemmy.world 5 months agopossible slut
Oh no, I could’ve gotten laid! 😭
Kusimulkku@lemm.ee 5 months ago
ComfortableRaspberry@feddit.de 5 months ago
It’s okay to not find it appealing but it’s still not okay to call someone a slut because you feel like they had too many sexual partners. It’s easy as that ¯_(ツ)_/¯
Kusimulkku@lemm.ee 5 months ago
I didn’t mean to imply calling someone a slut was okay, just that thinking someone is a slut is just an “ick” thing for many.
ComfortableRaspberry@feddit.de 5 months ago
They are not slut. There’s no reason to think of someone like that. Having more sexual partners than you are being comfortable with doesn’t make someone a slut.
spujb@lemmy.cafe 5 months ago
and herein lies the inherent contradiction of misogynistic objectification 😞😞
woman who sleep with men are sluts. women who won’t sleep with me? also sluts.
Kusimulkku@lemm.ee 5 months ago
I mean someone can still sleep with a lot of people even when it doesn’t include you. So it’s not necessarily contradictory