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• spujb@lemmy.cafe ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  and herein lies the inherent contradiction of misogynistic objectification 😞😞

  woman who sleep with men are sluts. women who won’t sleep with me? also sluts.

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  • Kusimulkku@lemm.ee ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    I mean someone can still sleep with a lot of people even when it doesn’t include you. So it’s not necessarily contradictory

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• Kusimulkku@lemm.ee ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Some just find the idea of their partner having had a lot of other partners unappealing. I get it, it’s a really common thing. I’m sure some of it is sexism but having a ton of previous partners isn’t very appealing to a lot of women either. Plenty of jokes about someone having so many diseases that their dick falls off lol

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  • ComfortableRaspberry@feddit.de ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    It’s okay to not find it appealing but it’s still not okay to call someone a slut because you feel like they had too many sexual partners. It’s easy as that ¯_(ツ)_/¯

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    • Kusimulkku@lemm.ee ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      I didn’t mean to imply calling someone a slut was okay, just that thinking someone is a slut is just an “ick” thing for many.

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      • ComfortableRaspberry@feddit.de ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        They are not slut. There’s no reason to think of someone like that. Having more sexual partners than you are being comfortable with doesn’t make someone a slut.

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