>be me
>highschool gym class
>shirts vs skins
>take off shirt
>gym teacher sees my bruises
>get called into office
>asked if bruises are from home
>no these are from school
>oh ok
>never chosen for skins again
>thanks gym teacher
shirts vs skins? is the school too poor to get some coloured vests? were the girls supposed to take off their shirt too?
slaacaa@lemmy.world 9 months ago
Nobody cares about bullying, until the victim decides to fight back. Then it’s “zero tolerance” for violence
Default_Defect@midwest.social 9 months ago
This was probably 25 years ago at this point but I got sent to the principal’s office along with the kid that attacked me and I didn’t even have a chance to fight back before an adult showed up to stop it. Didn’t matter, got the same “shame on you” even though I literally did nothing.
wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 months ago
I was in martial arts in highschool, and the star student got in a fight. Advanced levek blackbelt, teaching lessons himself, winning regional competitions, wanted to do mma and teach it shortly before it really became a known thing, think he actually does that now.
I had recently watched this guy hold his own sparring against the lead instructor of our “dojo” and the lead instructor for the state. They came at him one at a time, but it was one contiuous match.
The star student did not initiate the fight at school. He could have broken the kid who attacked him in half without much effort, but he didn’t even attempt to block. He knew the zero tolerance rules and didn’t want anything to come back on him.
If I recall right, the attacker broke or sprained the star student’s arm. School admin still came down on him. It took intervention by state level people in our martial arts org and numerous others for them to let him back before the attacker.
This sounds like some adolescent power fantasy, but it’s not. Just absolutely fucking absurd.
daniyeg@lemmy.ml 9 months ago
repungnant_canary@lemmy.world 9 months ago
Absolutely not true. It’s the adults listening and reacting only to what they want that incentivizes young people to lie
sheepy@lemm.ee 9 months ago
That is such a horrible view of children. What happened to you to form such an opinion?
VampyreOfNazareth@lemm.ee 9 months ago
It’s worth it to smash bullies right in the nose.