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Bottom_racer@aussie.zone â¨3⊠â¨months⊠ago
bro sent an email to olâ boy/girl last night. Basically a rant⌠iâll write a list:
- Unfair that they canât force room changes.
- SIL is pregnant so they want an extra room for them when they visit (which is for a day or two a year).
- Itâs my fault they donât visit because I told them to fuck off when they tried to change sleeping arrangements last xmas.
- Family doesnât respect the fact SIL is pregnant (olâ boy who is in a related field hooked them with IVF and paid for it).
- Family doesnât respect their marriage (olâ boy paid for their wedding)
- That it âhurtsâ they arenât getting their way (guilt trip about how bro would like to see them more but wonât because they arenât bending to them).
- Because Iâm not married they get to choose shit.
I predicted that theyâd try and guilt the pâs into changing shit just for them and blame me. Donât really know why Iâm caught up in this.
Highly manipulative shit.
But why he sent that to the olâ girl is fucked. In early Jan sheâs about to find out if sheâs going to be totally blind. Weâre all stressing about that and thereâs bro pulling shit like this. Sheâs stressed enough.
I swear SIL is pulling the strings.
I will not make them feel welcome next time I see them.
Thank you for listening :)
Eagle@aussie.zone â¨3⊠â¨months⊠ago
StudChud@aussie.zone â¨3⊠â¨months⊠ago
Man, I wanna smack your bro and Sil lol. What narcissistic assholes đ¤Śđźââď¸
Bottom_racer@aussie.zone â¨3⊠â¨months⊠ago
narcissistic
I think thatâs exactly what it is unfortunately.
Seagoon_@aussie.zone â¨3⊠â¨months⊠ago
omg, thatâs so shameful
and so many hugs and best wishes for your mum , thatâs just so sad
Bottom_racer@aussie.zone â¨3⊠â¨months⊠ago
best wishes for your mum
Thank you it means a lot. Itâs been so rough on her last thing she needs is this crap.
CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone â¨3⊠â¨months⊠ago
This is my take on this: Bro and wife have had heated words. Sheâs thrown out a âyour family treats us like shit and you donât stick up for me. Blah blah blahâ. Heâs left the room to write an angry email.
Ignore it. Youâve got more important things to deal with.
Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone â¨3⊠â¨months⊠ago
Iâm going to agree with this. Iâve been pressured into something along these lines with friends, but then I dumped her.
CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone â¨3⊠â¨months⊠ago
John and Yoko situation going on.
Bottom_racer@aussie.zone â¨3⊠â¨months⊠ago
I think youâre right. Either that or sheâs "Iâm going to get my way and youâre not making it happen be a MANâ. Actually tempted to ask her point blank what role sheâs played in writing those emails. Bro was sending similar entitled shit when they were getting married lol.
melbaboutown@aussie.zone â¨3⊠â¨months⊠ago
I donât get why having or not having children is such a clout thing. And being empreggened means they get to be in charge or they have a tantrum? Sounds really entitled.
Is there a word like bridezilla but for this situation and both of them?
Bottom_racer@aussie.zone â¨3⊠â¨months⊠ago
get to be in charge or they have a tantrum?
I think itâs that but it was happening before expecting. Now itâs next level entitled heh.
Catfish@aussie.zone â¨3⊠â¨months⊠ago
Mom/Dadzilla can be used after hatching. Breeder applies before and aft to a certain type of person who doesnât bother to Parent and just spawns.
melbaboutown@aussie.zone â¨3⊠â¨months⊠ago
Itâs so weird how they think it makes them more important or higher in the pecking order.
Iâd argue Bottomracer contributes more to the family in terms of caregiving and should be more accommodated
Llabyrinthine@aussie.zone â¨3⊠â¨months⊠ago
WTF: 4. AND 5.
I just have too many bad words⌠In more than one language, LOL.
Methinks itâs a shame there wasnât several different instances of 3.
HNY! đ To less FWs in 2025.
Catfish@aussie.zone â¨3⊠â¨months⊠ago
This mega pisses me off. In the vast majority of cases being knocked up isnât a great drama. Much sympathy.