Comment on Anon doesn't tip

• Cruxifux@feddit.nl ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

  Oh dude just fuck off, gender is not important for the point.

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  • Sop@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    It’s not an attack, you don’t need to get so defensive. It just stood out to me.

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    • Cruxifux@feddit.nl ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

      Because serving is a female dominated service where I am I guess?

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      • neonred@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        So you’re maginalizating male service workers now? Are they less important?

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  • dragonfucker@lemmy.nz ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Exactly, gender isn’t important. You could have done the convenient thing and they/themed the imaginary waiter. Why did you choose to go to the effort of assigning a gender when gender has nothing to do with your point?

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    • Cruxifux@feddit.nl ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Because it doesn’t actually matter what gender I used so I went with she and didn’t put much thought into it. I didn’t think people would be so soft headed as to actually give a shit because it isn’t relevant to the point at all. If I had said “he” nobody would have given a shit, something is wrong with y’all.

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  • TherapyGary@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    This could’ve been an “oops, you’re right- corrected, thanks.” But instead you got weird about it

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    • Cruxifux@feddit.nl ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Nah, the people who are hyper focused on the gender of the server as opposed to their actual quality of life in these situations are the weird ones.

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      • TherapyGary@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        Lol no u

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• RedditWanderer@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  This place is just as toxic as reddit lol, it was a valid question.

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  • Cruxifux@feddit.nl ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    It’s not certain places online that are toxic. It’s the internet at large.

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• TimewornTraveler@lemm.ee ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  my guess is cuz the server in the Reservoir Dogs clip this is referencing is a she

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