I mean, you don’t go straight for stuff like that, you start with very thin bendy silicone sounds and SLOWLY move up from there. You also always use tons of sterile lube and boil your sounds (IMPORTANT NOTE: LET THEM COOL) to sterilize them before using them. Done right it’s not painful, uncomfortable at worst. Can definitely be worth it, stimulating your prostate from inside of it is crazy, I’ve cum a couple times in a chastity cage by sounding myself.
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superduperpirate@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Sounds like I’d pass out from the pain if I tried anything like this.
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I had weird friends in college, which was appropriate since I was (and still am) pretty weird myself. One such friend, who was heavily into body piercing & body modification (talked regularly about wanting to split his tongue) took it upon himself to warp my fragile little mind by showing me unsolicited pictures of sounding. When I recoiled in horror and shut my eyes, he then proceeded to tell me of cock & ball torture enthusiasts who supposedly stick a sounding rod in their urethra and then hit their dicks with a hammer. He was a little too excited when describing this to me, which makes me wonder if he ever tried it himself.
pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 months ago
bitfucker@programming.dev 2 months ago
Those important notes feel like a personal experience lol
pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 months ago
Thankfully I have not tried something that was just in boiling water in my urethra but I have been surprised by how slowly silicone can cool down
TheSlad@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
Silicone can be grippy and irritating on the urethra, and the flexibility reduces the pleasure anyways. Just get a full set of rods and start with 4 to 5 mm, any adult cock should be able to take that. And yes, go slow of course! I’ve never gotten a prostate orgasm from it, but having my glans stretched out with a thick rod makes it 100 times more sensitive; very mind-blowing orgasms!
Also you dont need sterile sugical lube, its thick and dries out fast. I recommend LubeLife brand lube. DO NOT USE SILICONE BASED LUBES they do not feel good inside the pp.
Also, im not necessarily recommending this, but im super lazy with cleaning them (just wipe with a paper towel when done) and I’ve never had a uti or other problem in 20 years of sounding.
the_crotch@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
I’m not one to kink shame, you do you, but I am incredibly grateful that I’m fine with just regular old jerking off
pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 months ago
Ay, nothing wrong with that
the_crotch@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
It’s very convenient
Asetru@feddit.org 2 months ago
One such friend took it upon himself to warp my fragile little mind by showing me unsolicited pictures of sounding.
What is “sounding”? Do I want to know?
TassieTosser@aussie.zone 2 months ago
It’s where you stick things in your penis.
ComicalMayhem@lemmy.world 2 months ago
specifically through the pee hole
leftzero@lemmynsfw.com 2 months ago
in your penis
Urethra. You don’t need a penis to practice sounding (or have sounding practiced on you).
TheSlad@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
Sounding is often associated with CBT/BDSM/pain play, but it doesnt have to be. I’m not into any of that, I sound because it feels good. It doesn’t have to hurt at all if you’re gentle with yourself and don’t force it.
Crashumbc@lemmy.world 2 months ago
I knew some folks that were into “suspension” (hanging yourself from hooks through your skin) when they were young.
gwen@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 months ago
THROUGH the skin? i thought that was a torture method but like everyone’s into something
Crashumbc@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Yup, it is crazy.