Comment on Anon can't find a good match

• ameancow@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Ah so they had human emotions and mental health struggles.

  When someone says “I’m a drama magnet” they are the drama. When someone says “I attract psychos” they are the psycho. More likely than not this chud learned the term “Cluster B” and just pounds that button on anything that remotely makes him feel uncomfortable.

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  • SoleInvictus@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

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    • ameancow@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      That’s another whole side for people to understand, that even if he was telling the truth about his string of exes, the large majority of people who have mental health or personality disorders actually get treatment and manage it, just that you don’t hear stories about these people because it’s not sensational. So instead our only view into how mental health disorders and relationships work together is from unhinged greentext like this.

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      • TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        because people like that aren’t out there causing havoc in other people’s lives.

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  • RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Yeah. If everywhere you go it smells like dog shit, check the bottom of your own shoe first.

    It’s like those people that keep getting into bad relationships are damaged themselves, just like anon. Doesn’t mean the other people aren’t broken, too.

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  • TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    some psychos are very good at hiding it until they have you committed to them.

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    • ameancow@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Oh I believe it, I was born and raised to people like that. I was never able to tell anyone how bad it was because my parents were very good at pretending to be normal and people would tell me how “lucky” I am all the time.

      My point is though, if it keeps happening to you in life where you keep running into these cases, you are either astronomically unlucky or there is something about you either attracting them, or you are one of them and have reversed the narrative in your mind to preserve your sense of identity.

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• CptEnder@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Sounds like incels gonna use this to sound more valid. The “blown up vagina” “too much birth control” are giant red arrows pointing at this. Sad.

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  • SupraMario@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Yea that entire green text read like an incels diary.

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    • AstridWipenaugh@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Is that not what greentext is by definition?

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      • SupraMario@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        Fair enough, every once in a while it doesn’t seem like it but yea the majority are.

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  • ameancow@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Remembering that it’s greentext and thus almost assuredly entirely fiction, the way he wrote this fiction gives insight into what he thinks of women, that they are prone to this really specific mental health/personality disorder is a reflection of him and his views, unless like… he left out the part where he was also a licensed therapist for each of these women and those were real diagnoses.

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• NigelFrobisher@aussie.zone ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  When everyone you meet is a Cluster B, maybe you’re the Cluster B.

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• TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  in women it’s most likely histrionic or borderline.

  men are more likely to be narcissistic or anti social

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