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dingus@lemmy.world 1 day agoI know you are hurting right now and you need somewhere for that hurt to go, but I am not your enemy. I am not familiar with the users you posted, nor do I have the ability to change your situation. I’m just some random a bit bored on my weekend off haha. It’s somewhat marred by the fact that Lemmy keeps erroring out every time I try to do something, but alas.
To be frank with you, I’m not interested in having some long protracted debate with you about the content of your original post.
I’m sorry for the ramble (we both appear to be prone to it lol) and I know this sounds a bit out of left field, but have you heard of DBT? I don’t have ADHD myself, but I struggle with the intensity of my emotions when something happens to me. I’ve read that a lot of people with ADHD struggle with this too. You are absolutely valid in being hurt and upset, but your own behavioral response afterwards isn’t necessarily helping you out. I’ve been trying my best to have a more nuanced understanding of things, myself, life, etc., and to be less polarizing in “right” vs. “wrong”. I don’t always succeed (as no human is perfect), but I feel as though it has helped me out.
I do wish I had another mental health community to direct you towards that would welcome you, but unfortunately I don’t at the moment.
I can only hope you do something fun/nice for yourself today to try to make what happened weigh less on your mind! Wishing all the best!
Abyssian@lemmy.world 20 hours ago
Of course, when I call out your messages and ask you to specify what assertion you were saying your could see as being medical misinformation you are unable to actually do that and so you deflect to acting as though you’re worried that I had issues controlling my own emotions.
Instead of backing up your own statements and words, you call into question the personal emotional state of the other person. There’s a term for that.
dingus@lemmy.world 20 hours ago
This is a support thread. I was giving some of my thoughts on it. It didn’t seem to be a space where a back and forth debate made sense.
I posted the comment you replied to when you being unkind to me and started accusing me of things that I did not do.
Please understand that you are speaking to another human when you are doing this. I am a living, breathing being. And you are being hurtful.
Being hurtful is not only unfair to me, but you are hurting yourself in the process. I found a lot of help discovering DBT, and I just rambles on about it as something that felt relevant to the scenario.
Abyssian@lemmy.world 20 hours ago
Doubling down. Note that you walked into this thread and accused me of spreading misinformation.
You made a long post and ended in saying that you would understand someone seeing my assertion as being that. Medical misinformation.
When I replied rebutting your reply and questioning for you to point to a specific assertion that I made that you are claiming would be reasonably considered medical misinformation, you instead deflect to questioning my emotional stability and control.
After that was called out you doubled down on that and also try to assert that I am the bad monster causing you emotional harm in this situation.
It seems likely that you are correct that you do have issues controlling your emotions, however that’s not an issue I’ve ever had. I thank you for your deep and genuine concern.
However the only words I’m interested in seeing for you are words backing up your own statement. Specifically, what is the assertion you claim that I made which could be reasonably considered medical misinformation?
BussyGyatt@feddit.org 19 hours ago
nobody here can help you. you need a professional. stop pushing the responsibility for your own care onto other people.