Serious question, has anyone ever tried making a community for both incels and femcels so they can learn about each other and find common ground? I think it could be beneficial to both.
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strawberry_enjoyer42@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 months agoI like to think most of us (at least those of us on !femcelmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone) simply want to commiserate and get emotional support while we don’t have lovers.
the_crotch@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
MeowerMisfit817@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Last Incel I met was a child groomer.
the_crotch@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
Oof. I can see where that would turn you off to the idea.
MeowerMisfit817@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Come on, I’m a femcel with weird ideas like “Christians are brainwashing you”, not an evil person.
BreakerSwitch@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Damn.
Fizz@lemmy.nz 2 months ago
Incels and femcels are natural enemies.
RightHandOfIkaros@lemmy.world 2 months ago
An Incel would say to a femcel “I’ll date you” and the femcels would say no therefore proving the Incels point thats its voluntary celibacy.
I won’t lie, they would kinda have a point with that.
I am not suggesting incels and femcels should date each other, that probably would be a bad idea, but some people who call themselves incel/femcel are just overly picky with unrealistic expectations of the kind of partner they can reasonably expect to draw the attention of. That is not involuntary, that is quite literally voluntary.
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 2 months ago
You are generous. Some incel/femcel types I’ve met were not picky… they were just totally undesirable human beings, either physical, socially, or emotionally.
You may not believe it, but some people are the dregs of society and nobody wants to associate with them at all and no amount of ‘improvement’ will ever make them desirable to be around or date.
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 2 months ago
No, they’d just hate each other.
RightHandOfIkaros@lemmy.world 2 months ago
I think most people that frequent those type of communities feel the same, and I hope you and all of the emotionally vulnerable, man or woman, are able to get real help that you need to feel better and more self-confident. Pain in the heart is not a fun thing to spend one’s time dealing with.
strawberry_enjoyer42@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 months ago
It really isn’t fun. Thanks for the kind words.