Comment on Another redundant app

EggInDisguise@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

• minorkeys@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  God forbid men have a preference women don’t approve…

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  • stray@pawb.social ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Having a preference and whining are not the same thing.

    Things that are fine to say in relevant social contexts:

    • You look really cute without makeup.
    • I prefer lighter makeup.
    • I love heavy makeup looks.
    • I have sensory issues and can’t stand the smell of makeup at all.

    Things that are creepy to say in any context:

    • Women use makeup as a lie to trick men.
    • I want a traditional woman who doesn’t paint her face like a clown.
    • I don’t know how she expects to attract a man when she’s not even putting in any effort to do basic makeup.
    • I bet she’s really ugly without all that makeup.

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    • minorkeys@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      See this sounds like whining to me. How does one tell the difference?

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      • stray@pawb.social ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        I think if you can’t tell the two categories apart you should talk about it with a healthcare professional. I don’t know what it’s called in English, but there exists a type of therapy focused on teaching and developing skills that could be helpful.

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    • Holytimes@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Personally I find all make be it on a woman or man. To be the single ugliest thing a person can do to them self. Its vile and revolting. It looks highly unnatural, and actively causes me stress some times and I have no idea why. It triggers my flight or fight response when someone has too much on and I can’t accurately make out their features.

      Perfume and Cologne is the same way. In my 30 years of life iv never found a single perfume or cologne be it on a man or woman. That did not actively make me gag and make my eyes water. I can frequently taste it on the air long long after many people can’t. Which I assume is part of the problem. I’m just hyper sensitive to almost all fragrances.

      90% of laundry detergent, soaps, and basically anything with a scent does exactly the same thing to me.

      Iv been yelled at for involuntarily gaging when women walk by me because I can so strongly taste their perfume.

      If I could I would out right ban all make up and scents. They are terrible things and from the outside looking in. They seem to do nothing but perpetuate a endless cycle of social abuse. People get judged for using them. For not using them. For using too much, or not enough.

      So far as I can tell there’s not a single good thing socially that has come from the invention of non medical cosmetics.

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      • stray@pawb.social ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        This is valid:

        It triggers my flight or fight response when someone has too much on and I can’t accurately make out their features.

        This is needlessly insulting:

        the single ugliest thing a person can do to them self. Its vile and revolting.

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      • kerrigan778@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        What stray said but also omg, please write more clearly. Write full sentences and don’t put random sentence breaks in places they don’t belong. I assume this is a second language issue but it needs grammar work and as long as you’re being rude you can at least be easy to read.

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  • EggInDisguise@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    I’m sorry, that sounds awfully close to whining about women wearing makeup.

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    • minorkeys@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      God forbid someone have an opinion on makeup that isn’t positive! Stone them!

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      • atomicorange@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        “I prefer it when you don’t brush your teeth”. So? Keep it to yourself weirdo, I’m not doing it for you.

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    • Holytimes@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      I wine when anyone wears it men or women. Make up just sucks and freaks me out on a fundamental level. Shit scares the actual fuck out of me.

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  • Malyca@lemmy.zip ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Not all men, but definitely you

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    • minorkeys@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      That’s the kind of flawed reasoning that makes the mess to begin with.

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      • Feathercrown@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        It’s not prejudiced to judge someone for their actual actions

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  • LurkingLuddite@piefed.social ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Found the manchild who cannot get it up. Sad.

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    • minorkeys@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Oh, attack the assumed sexual capabilities of your target, very original.

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  • Tiresia@slrpnk.net ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    God forbid a woman doesn’t want to hang out with you.

    (repeat for all women until no woman wants to hang out with you)

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    • minorkeys@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Are you implying I suggested otherwise? I support a woman’s right to choose, as I do a man’s.

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• atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  You seriously need to calm down.

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  • EggInDisguise@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    You seriously need to stop following me

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    • minorkeys@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      The gall? The gall to expect others to never have an opinion you don’t agree with and if they do? BLOCK THEM! Like a child putting their finger in their ears.

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      • Sanctus@anarchist.nexus ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        H9mie going to bat for every piece of shit dude he never met in existence right now fake-peppino-run

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    • atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Bye Felicia!

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