Comment on How men are different than women

WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

• morphballganon@mtgzone.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  … for not boring each other with mundane anecdotes? Lol

  I’m sure your friends totally love when you talk about yourself, though

  source

  • SethTaylor@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    If your friends bore you, you may need better friends

    And are you telling me you seriously have nothing interesting to say to a friend when you meet them? What do you do all day that you have nothing to discuss?

    What on earth do you even do with your friends? Play football? Drink and sit and go “yup”? Is this a thing I’m not “manly” enough to understand or what?

    Are you of an older generation that is embarassed to talk about feelings or private matters? Help me understand here

    source

    • lightnsfw@reddthat.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      What do you do all day that you have nothing to discuss?

      My tedious job. Then I get home and work out, make dinner and clean up, maybe have an hour or so to watch a show or game or something.

      What on earth do you even do with your friends? Play football? Drink and sit and go “yup”? Is this a thing I’m not “manly” enough to understand or what?

      We do other things beside football like darts, or bowling, or have a backyard fire, or boardgames, but for the most part… yea. If somebody’s working on an interesting project or is doing something cool we’ll talk about that.

      Are you of an older generation that is embarassed to talk about feelings or private matters? Help me understand here

      It’s not that we’re embarrassed, there’s just no point. It does nothing for us. 95% of the time all the mundane personal shit is the same as last time we saw them. If anything major comes up or someone is going through some shit, sure we’ll talk about it. but for the most part it’s not interesting.

      source

      • SethTaylor@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

        If somebody’s working on an interesting project or is doing something cool we’ll talk about that.

        If anything major comes up or someone is going through some shit, sure we’ll talk about it.

        So that means you talk to your friends about as much as any other person would.

        Alright then, get outta here you rascal. Got me all fired up here for nothing. 😂

        source
    • morphballganon@mtgzone.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      OP post wife asked about “kids, families, jobs.” There are plenty of families where there would be no news about those subjects. But furthermore, there are plenty of topics that were probably mentioned but then forgotten because they were mundane.

      source
  • WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    You Incels just can’t get over it I suppose.

    source

    • Soulg@ani.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      This post is about male friendships being different than female friendships and you bring incels out like a jump scare

      You’re the problem here lol

      source

      • WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

        My original comment was that men suck, because friendships with men are generaly like…I recently fell out with a group because they ate the sigma pill, and started to believe really dumb shit.

        source

        • -> View More Comments
    • morphballganon@mtgzone.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      Looks over at my wife ok bro

      source

      • WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

        Point still stands. The exception does not make the rule.

        Most men suck. At least I’m self-aware and admit it.

        source

        • -> View More Comments
• SethTaylor@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  People downvote this comment and then drop some bomb about the male loneliness issue

  I mean, those dudes in that original post sound like they need therapy. They sound like they feel alone even with friends. Either that or they did some Hangover level shit and will take that secret to the grave 😂 We’ll never know

  source

  • WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    My own fault for dispensing judgement instead of support.

    But it is my honest opinion that men suck, and I may not suck in the same way, but I suck too.

    source

    • SethTaylor@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      Ah, hell, man, all people suck, really. But men do suck in obvious ways that render immediate consequences. That much I know is true

      source
• 1984@lemmy.today ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  What? Men are the coolest humans on the planet. They built everything you can see, and are a lot of fun to talk to. Maybe not all, I dont know, but some guys are hilarious.

  I dont know. I feel the opposite of what you do. Most of them are awesome.

  source